
Bernice Jane Hughes
November 05, 1919 - July 01, 2020
Obituary
MOUNT HOREB - Bernice Jane (Synon) Hughes, age 100, an enduring and meaningful presence in the lives of many, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, July 1, 2020.
Bernice was born on Nov. 5, 1919, the oldest of the five daughters to Anne (Byrne) and Jerome Synon. She attended Verona Elementary School and Edgewood High School, graduating in the top percentile of the Class of 1937. Bernice attended the University of Wisconsin-Madison for two years, going on to graduate with a Bachelor of Science degree in Education from the University of Wisconsin at Platteville in 1941. Her first job was teaching special needs children in Viroqua, Wis. Just after the end of World War II, Bernice worked at the U.S. Armed Forces Institute (USAFI), and later at the State Motor Vehicle Department and the U.S. Forest Products Laboratory in Madison.
Bernice met Andrew Hughes on a blind date arranged by their relatives, and they were married in Verona, Wis., in November of 1946. Andy and Bernice moved to Mount Horeb in 1952 to farm and raise their family. She was proud to have lived independently in her home until the age of 96, walking the long driveway daily, saying her prayers while staying fit. Bernice was a step counter, long before Fitbit was invented.
An accomplished pianist, she spent many years as the organist at the St. Ignatius Church in Mount Horeb and was active in the church's Altar Society. She enjoyed baking and shared her renowned pecan cinnamon rolls and fruit pies for the many occasions at which she volunteered.
She will be remembered for her sharp wit, good sense of humor and an iron will. Her children lovingly referred to her as "The Colonel" for good reason. Bernice showed her love for her children by ensuring they received a good education. She espoused common sense and good judgement and exemplified the value of communication, for many years handwriting a letter every week to all of her children.
She devoured the daily newspaper, tracked her favorite sports teams, and enjoyed a good debate about local and national politics. The 1940 U.S. Presidential Election Day fell on her 21st birthday. She wrote to the Wisconsin Secretary of State to inquire about her ability to vote and was proud to cast her first ballot that year. She proudly participated in and supported local initiatives and candidates at all levels.
Bernice was educated in her beliefs, committed to family, a good friend to her neighbors and has left us with an amazing legacy of love and an exemplary life of generosity and kindness. She will be missed, but in our hearts, forever.
Bernice is survived by her children, Jane (Ron) Roemer of Middleton, Rosemary (Ed) Bauer of Winnebago, Ill., David Hughes of Mount Horeb, Carol (Tom) Norris of Delafield, Rita (Sam) Hudson of Novato, Calif., and Diane (Bob) Schumacher of Walla Walla, Wash.; eight grandchildren; eight great-grandchildren; and numerous nieces and nephews; as well as her cousin, Dr. Charles Larkin. She was preceded in death by her husband, Andrew in 1995; her son, William in 1956; two infant sons; her parents; her sisters; and her in-laws.
Due to COVID-19 restrictions, a private burial was held at CALVARY CEMETERY in Mount Horeb. A Memorial Mass and Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Edgewood High School and Verona Historical Society.
Special thanks to Joe and Patti Heuser and Kenzie Ballweg for their companionship, support and commitment to her comfort and wellbeing over the years. More recently, the family wishes to thank Jessica Wienand and her team at Heartland Hospice as well as Marissa, Lynae and Sister Nicole. Thanks also to the entire team at Brookdale Middleton Century Avenue, Oak Park Place and All Saints Independent Living. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson Camacho Mount Horeb
Funeral & Cremation Care
500 N. Eighth Street
(608) 437-5077
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Pat Krantz
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It was very special to have our mothers together at All Saints and to spend time talking and sharing with Bernice. She was an amazing woman and we reminisced about our time in "Springdale" when we were neighbors. We know that she so looked forward to her 100th birthday. By that time, mom had moved to another place and it was much harder to stay in touch. Life does change quickly. We love her nickname "The Colonel" and feel it did suit her well. She was very proud of all of her kids and could go down the list about who lived where and who did what, etc. You were blessed to have such a wonderful mother. We think of both of our moms and being reunited in heaven and continuing their cooking for others and singing/playing piano in their heavenly choir. She will be missed.
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Helen fecht
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Jane,
I'm so sorry to hear about Mom! I send you and your family my thoughts and prayers. She was a strong and independent lady.
Helen Fecht
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Noel Pycior
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My deepest condolences for the loss of your mother Rosemary. I loved hearing the stories of you and your mom. She raised such a beautiful women - you are a gem Rosemary and I'm so very sorry for your loss. Much love and best wishes to the entire family.
Noel Pycior (College of Medicine)
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Beth Thomas
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There are way too memories of my Aunt Bernice to list. Our sympathies to all the Hughes family - Jane, Rosemary, David, Carol, Rita and Diane. Mike and I loved our visits with Bernice over the years and all the tales she had to tell. Beth and Mike
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Cynthia Zwald
My condolences to my Hughes cousins on the death of my Aunt Bernice. I had no idea she was called the "Colonel", but it was very fitting. And very humorous. Bernice put the "F" in Fiesty. I got to know Bernice better after Mom died, and Bernice would come to Dodgeville to get her hair done. We would meet at Culver's for lunch. She had the most fantastic memory, and I learned a lot of family history. I wish that these lunches/visits would have started earlier. And while I witnessed her in the Colonel role while growing up, I had no idea what a sense of humor she had. She could be hilarious. She never minced words, and there were times I laughed so hard that I had tears. My favorite memory was reuniting Bernice and her dear friend Mary K. who had been college roommates long ago. Bernice was coming to my house, and I arranged for Mary K. to stop over as a surprise, since Mary K. lived in MIneral Pojnt . What fun to see them sitting alone recalling the old days. They sat alone in my front living room, and the short visit turned into talking for well over an hour. Bernice will be missed by many. Love, Cindy
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Catherine O'Brien Schneider
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To Bernice's Family,
Bernice left an indelible impression on me ever since I was a child and would visit with my family to see Bernice, Andy, and the kids on their farm. Such an intelligent and forceful woman she was. Never did she miss a beat with knowing what was happening and keeping straight all the members of the extended family even with our large numbers. There was a special strength of character she had in her elderly years that kept her going, even to her 100th birthday celebration which was so special. Due to her deep appreciation for Verona history and now living in that same town where she grew up, I plan to send a memorial donation in her name to the Verona Historical Society.
Catherine O'Brien Schneider