Rev. Renshin  Barbara Verkuilen

Rev. Renshin Barbara Verkuilen

March 07, 1945 - March 18, 2024

Obituary

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Rev. Renshin Barbara Berkuilen's Livestream Service will begin at 1 p.m. CT on Friday, March 29, 2024. Scroll down to the Webcast section and click on "Watch Now."  


A Zen Buddhist Memorial Service will take place at GUNDERSON WEST FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 7435 University Ave, Middleton, WI, on Friday, March 29, 2024, at 1 p.m. followed by visitation and refreshments.


Rev. Renshin Barbara Verkuilen was born in Chicago, IL to Max and Helen [Dresser] Jacob. She was husband of Taizen Dale, mother to John [Samantha Cripps], Peter [Monica Hanley], grandmother to Myasia Fajardo, and sister to Renee Kahn [Eliot Bolotin].


Renshin taught 2nd grade at Francis Parker School in Chicago for seven years before retraining as a psychotherapist, practicing for twenty years in various Wisconsin locations. She studied and practiced Zen Buddhism for fifty-five years under Rev. Soyu Matsuoka, Rev. Dainin Katagiri, and Rev. Shoken Winecoff, culminating in ordination as a Zen priest in 1997 and certification as a Zen teacher in 2013. She founded the Midwest Soto Zen Community in Madison in 2001, served at Ryumonji Zen Monastery, and at a number of Zen Centers in the Iowa, Minnesota, and Wisconsin on a temporary basis.


Renshin authored three books [The Tale of Zen Master Bho Li, Dokusan with Dōgen: Timeless Lessons in Negotiating the Way, and Tending the Fire: An Introspective Guide to Zen Awakening] and The Process of Awakening, a comprehensive study of Zen practice, as well as a number of guidebooks on Zen subject materials.


Her association with the psychotherapist, David Grove, and his non-interpretative, supposition-free approach to accessing intuitive knowledge, produced two innovative adaptations - Metaphor Awareness and Enhanced Emergent Knowledge - both of which were integral to her counseling therapy and Zen practice.


Renshin’s kind, generous, and compassionate nature, combined with an unusual intuitive intelligence, had the faculty to communicate profound and complex ideas in a succinct manner. Those in relations with her were introduced into to a new and more vital way of being in the world merely by being close.


She will be greatly missed by her family members, many friends, and fellow Zen practitioners.


In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorials be made in Renshin’s honor to Solace Friends [Hospice for the Homeless] https://www.solacefriends.org/, P.O. Box 5587, Madison, WI 53705-5587 info@solacefriends.org (608) 843-8191


Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson West

Funeral & Cremation Care

7435 University Ave.

(608) 831-6761

 


Events

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Memorial Service
Fri Mar 29, 2024 @ 1:00 PM - 2:00 PM CDT
Gunderson West Funeral & Cremation Care • 7435 University Ave., Middleton, WI 53562
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Luncheon After Service
Fri Mar 29, 2024 @ 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM CDT
Gunderson West Funeral & Cremation Care • 7435 University Ave., Middleton, WI 53562
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James Dildine
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My memory of Barbara is of a kind and calm spirit, who was always compassionate and generous. She was most supportive of my writing project, and wrote a wonderful blurb for the final book. Barbara's own books demonstrated her depth of understanding of the human spirit. Her book, "The Tale of Zen Master Bho Li" is bound to remain a classic! I recall her appreciation of Ryokan's poem, and believe it reflects her own Buddhist practice: "Like the little stream making its way through the mossy crevices. I, too, quietly turn clear and transparent." Congratulations on a life well lived! Gassho!
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Ryoten Mary Lehmann
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Thankyou dear friend and Dharma sister Renshin for heartfelt support, kindnesses and humor these past many years. Deep Bow, Ryoten May Kwan Yin welcome you ....another Bodhisattva on the other side.
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Gail Price
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Visits with Barbara after I had moved to Minneapolis were particularly special because they were no longer easy to make happen. Once when I was visiting, she shared with me some extraordinarily beautiful collages she had been making. This is one has been especially inspiring to me for a long time. It speaks of hope and courage and joy in the process of living. It is one of many "wonderments" we shared and which fill me with love and fond memories and gratitude. Thank you, Barbara
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Patty VerKuilen Varga
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A wonderful family reunion. You brought so much joy and contentment to our family.
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Gail Price
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I am so appreciative that you made Barbara's memorial service available through live stream. I am grateful that I was able to attend. It was good to see you and feel myself being among you. I hold you softly in my heart, and of course, Barbara. Gail Price

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