Alfred "Bud" Nelson

Alfred "Bud" Nelson

October 18, 1940 - March 07, 2025

Obituary

STOUGHTON - Alfred "Bud" Nelson, age 84, passed away on Friday, March 7, 2025, at home. Bud was born on October 18, 1940, in Duluth, Minn., to Ernest and Elnora Nelson. He lived in many different places in the states since his birth. His family settled in Marshall, Wis., where he graduated from high school.


After high school, Bud joined the U.S. Army and served as Military Police, stationed in Paris, France. In France he met Grethe Moller, his wife of over 60 years. Bud, an American citizen and Grethe a Norwegian citizen, with permission of their respective countries, were married in France in 1964 and eventually settled in Stoughton, Wis.


He was a man who wore many hats during his work life. He owned or worked at several full-service gas stations, was an owner operator semi-driver and retired from Stoughton Trailers.


Bud and Grethe enjoyed travelling and spent many Februarys in New Mexico and Arizona to escape the Wisconsin winter. Bud enjoyed many fishing trips with his "brother" cousin in Minnesota and later with his grandson and other friends.  He loved those trips and was hoping for one more trip, that will have to be in heaven.


He will be remembered by his sense of humor, his grace when losing cribbage games, and his sound advice offered when requested. He was always willing to give a hand to a neighbor or friend who needed his help.  He mowed a lot of lawns, cleared a lot of snow and did a lot of household fixes for many people over the years. He also enjoyed woodworking in "Bud's Mancave" and made numerous gifts for his family and friends. He loved spending time and helping out at the Langer farm in Marshall. His last "harvest" was only a few months ago.


Bud is survived by his wife, Grethe; daughters, Karen (Dave Vernig) Knipfer and Kristin (Jeff) Peterson; grandchildren, Richard (Paige Walker) Knipfer, Tucker Peterson and Shad Peterson; and great- grandchildren, Chloe and Elliott Gavney. He is also survived by his favorite nephew, David (Audrey) Vance. Bud was also a big dog lover.  He will be missed by his granddogs, Houston and Maddie. He was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Irene Bailey; and grandchildren, Joshua Gavney and Nick Peterson.


A funeral service will be held at GUNDERSON STOUGHTON FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 1358 Highway 51 N. at Jackson St., Stoughton, at 1 p.m. on Thursday, March 13, 2025. A visitation will be held at the funeral home from 11 a.m. until the time of the service on Thursday. A private family burial will follow the service.


A special thank you to the Veteran's Hospital and the wonderful people from Agrace HospiceCare.


In lieu of flowers, a donation to Agrace Hospice Care would be appreciated. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson Stoughton

Funeral & Cremation Care

1358 Highway 51 N. at Jackson St.

(608) 873-4590



Events

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Visitation
Thu Mar 13, 2025 @ 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Stoughton Funeral & Cremation Care • 1358 Hwy 51 N. @ Jackson St., Stoughton, WI 53589
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Funeral Service
Thu Mar 13, 2025 @ 1:00 PM - 1:30 PM CDT
Gunderson Stoughton Funeral & Cremation Care • 1358 Hwy 51 N. @ Jackson St., Stoughton, WI 53589
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Julie D.
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Bud and Grethe have been our neighbors and friends for over 40 years. His smile has always been gentle and true. He loved taking care of his lawn and property and helped show us how to do the same. Once, I accidentally broke a window in Bud and Grethe's garage while they were gone. I was so embarrassed! I fixed it before they got back. Bud was very understanding and told me not to feel bad about it and that I hadn't needed to go to the trouble of fixing it. But, I'm glad I did. He was so concerned about how I felt that he made me feel better about my clumsiness. I'm reminded of a Vince Gill song that says: "Go rest high on that mountain. Your work on earth is done." Julie
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Jen
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Allfred was such a kind, warm and caring man. He'd often come into Public Works or call to ask a question and then we'd end up chatting for a bit. I was always so happy to see him when he'd show up - he had a special place in my heart. I will miss our talks and your sweet soul. Rest in peace Alfred, you will certainly be missed. Jen City of Stoughton
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Teri Stoebner
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He made an awesome bird house for me that I absolutely adore. It’s in a sheltered place in a pine tree so it will last a long time. Thank you, Bud. ❤️ Teri Stoebner

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