John C. Hefte

John C. Hefte

March 10, 1943 - May 06, 2025

Obituary

MCFARLAND - John Hefte completed his journey to be with the Lord on May 6, 2025, surrounded by love. A devoted husband, father, and grandfather, John lived his life with the mission of leaving the world better than he found it-and by every measure, he succeeded.


Born on March 10, 1943, in Caledonia, Minn., to Inoh and Marie Hefte, John grew up with strong values and a passion for service. He graduated from Luther College in 1965, where he was a four-year letter winner in basketball and built lifelong friendships. On December 26, 1965, he married his high school sweetheart, Sandra, beginning a 59-year journey of love and partnership.


John began his career in education at Madison East High School, teaching and coaching football, basketball, and track. His passion for mentoring young people touched thousands of students and athletes over the years, fulfilling his life’s purpose. In 1970, John and Sandra embraced the adventure of a lifetime, teaching for two years in Tripoli, Libya. His time overseas left a lasting impression-not only on him but on his children, who would go on to dedicate their own careers to international education.


After 34 years of teaching and coaching, John retired in 1999. He remained deeply involved in education by supervising student teachers from UW-Madison and Luther College. He was an avid sports fan and loyal supporter of all Wisconsin teams, especially the Badgers. He took great pride in traveling to cheer on his daughter as she played for the UW Women’s Basketball team. His greatest recreational passion was golf-so much so that he once proudly claimed to have played 19 consecutive months in Madison.


In retirement, John found joy in traveling, particularly to visit his children during their teaching assignments in Malaysia and China. Whether at home or abroad, his love for family was constant and unwavering.


John is survived by his beloved wife of 59 years, Sandra; his children, Mark (Ann) Hefte and Leah (Matt) Kuykendall; and his cherished grandchildren, Hayden and Emerson (children of Mark), and Talia and Kieran (children of Leah). He is also survived by his brother, Art (Bev); and many loving nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents; his brother, Richard; half-brother, Bob; and half-sisters, Ione, Ruth and Audrey.


Those who knew John will remember him for the three guiding principles of his life: faith, family and friends. His kindness, strength and unwavering commitment to others will continue to inspire all who had the privilege of knowing him.


A celebration of life will be held at MCDANIEL PARK in McFarland (located on Lake Waubesa), from 3 p.m. until 6 p.m. on Tuesday, June 24, 2025. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson East

Funeral & Cremation Care

5203 Monona Drive

(608) 221-5420

Events

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Celebration of Life
Tue Jun 24, 2025 @ 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM CDT
McDaniel Park • 4806 McDaniel Ln., Mc Farland, WI 53558
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A Memorial Tree was planted for John Hefte
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ Gunderson Funeral Home - Madison
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John stacey
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Sandy, Mark, Lea, we were sorry to hear of John’s passing. Our family paths crossed many times. We remember them all. Times were great. John&Karen Stacey
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Ann/Phil Dettwiler
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We send our ((hugs)) to everyone: Sandy, Mark, Leah and children. We have great memories of our many connections and we want you to know we are keeping all of you close. May God give you strength and peace as you hold those important good memories in your hearts. Ann and Phil Dettwiler
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Beverly Brazzel
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John was a all around great guy, saw him at a East high basketball 🏀 a year ago. He look great, he knew who i was, right away. Class of 1977
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Karen Peterson
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Dear Sandy and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of John. He was a fine man, and I remember him for his friendliness and passion for friends. I last saw you both at Bethel in Madison one Sunday I was with my sister. I also remember watching him play on the Luther basketball team. What good years and good memories! Love, Karen Peterson
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Casey Benander
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Still fond of all those memories of working my butt off on a basketball court. It was hard to meet the passion that coach Hefte brought to each and every moment of the game. He cared more than anybody could possibly care and gave it all to his athletes. A true gem and somebody to be celebrated Beyond his years! I'm so sorry for this loss because it's the loss of somebody who had greatness inside and out. Until we meet again! Hugs to you Hefte family..Casey Benander (Kramper)

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