Ronald John Cotter

Ronald John Cotter

September 21, 1948 - May 16, 2023

Obituary

STOUGHTON - Ronald John “Ron” Cotter, age 74, of Stoughton, Wis., passed away on Tuesday, May 16, 2023.Ron was born on Sept. 21, 1948, in Ripon, Wis., the only (and perfect, if you asked his mother) son of Timothy (Des) Cotter and Caroline Cotter (Soda). He grew up in Brookfield with many regular visits to family in Montello and the Soda family farm outside Princeton. Ron graduated from the University of Wisconsin - Madison with a degree in Diversified Business. This is where he met the love of his life, Francie Baker, who he married in November of 1973 at St. Paul’s Catholic Church.


For a time, early in their marriage, propelled by his lifelong fascination with horses, Ron worked as a horse trainer in the Packwaukee area, sometimes being paid with a saddle or other non-negotiable tender, to the concern of his parents and newly pregnant wife. After welcoming Andrew, the first of three sons, with some encouragement from his wife, Ron embarked on a career in business management, where he worked for many years in the water purification field. Ron excelled in business and oversaw sales in offices in Wisconsin and Illinois. Ron and Francie were very pleased to add sons Benjamin and Nicholas to the family. Ron most recently worked as the founder and president of Red Horse Inc., with his two sons, Ben and Nick. He had a great mind for business, but his proudest accomplishments were his kids and grandkids.


His family is thankful he was able to realize so many of his dreams including being able to live on a farm near Stoughton for the past 30 years, where he was able to have horses and cultivate another passion of creating a habitat for wildlife, particularly whitetail deer. Ron was a hunter and fisherman and enjoyed fishing trips with his three sons as well as yearly deer camp. Ron had five grandchildren and he loved being “Grandpa” and “Papa.” Ron was also very pleased to be an uncle to a large but close-knit extended family. Ron and Francie enjoyed many trips out west as well as many family vacations in northern Wisconsin, Colorado, and Mexico. He held a deep faith and was grateful to be a member and elder at City Church for many years. Ron lived a big, full life and will be deeply missed. His last words were “keep the faith.”


Ron is survived by his wife, Francie; sons, Andy (Martha), Ben (Genevieve) and Nick (Sarah); grandsons, Nathanael, Joseph and Jacob; and granddaughters, Lucy and Betty. He was preceded in death by parents Timothy and Caroline.


Ron’s family would like to thank the doctors, nurses, and staff at UW Hospital in Madison, who provided wonderful and compassionate care for Ron and the family, including the Transplant team and coordinators who in 2018 oversaw the lung transplant which delivered nearly five more wonderful, healthy years.


A celebration of Ron’s life will be held at CITY CHURCH, 4909 East Buckeye Road, Madison, on Friday, June 2, 2023. Visitation will begin at 10 a.m., with a service at 11:30 a.m., and luncheon to follow.


Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson East

Funeral & Cremation Care

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Visitation
Fri Jun 2, 2023 @ 10:00 AM - 11:30 AM CDT
City Church • 4909 E. Buckeye Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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Memorial Service
Fri Jun 2, 2023 @ 11:30 AM - 12:30 PM CDT
City Church • 4909 E. Buckeye Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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Luncheon After Service
Fri Jun 2, 2023 @ 12:30 PM - 2:30 PM CDT
City Church • 4909 E. Buckeye Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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The Burdick family
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Thank you for always making me feel like a part of your family. Love and our condolences ,
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Laura Jacobson
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My beloved brother, you lived marvelously, laughed contagiously, shared abundantly, spoke kindly with affection and humor, led wisely, worked diligently, played creatively…and you have left a huge hole in our fellowship. I trust you and my Ron are enjoying many memories and laughing with contented humor and inexpressible Joy. Your Sis in Jesus, LauraJ
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Rachel Baker
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I had a memorable interaction with Uncle Ron that last time I visited Wisconsin and went up to the farm. That was about 3 summers ago, I believe. I wandered off to check out the beautiful horses and right behind me comes Ron to accompany me. We start talking about the horses and he’s answering all my questions. And even though I’ve honestly had few interactions with Uncle Ron, in that moment I could feel is passion and love for those free-spirited animals. He made me feel really welcome and I just loved hearing him talk about those horses as we gazed at them from a distance. Just from that small interaction I could tell that Ron had a lot of kindness and love. He was a really great guy. Rest in Peace, Uncle Ron, I hope you are riding free with those horses in Heaven.
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The Baker siblings of Francie: Terry & Kevin, Anne & Steve, Marty, Will & Brenda.
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Our deepest sympathy to our beloved Cotters!
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Laura Jacobson
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Decades of love and friendship.
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Jennifer (nee Jenni Olson) Guffey
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I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Ron from being to your house once for Andy's birthday when you lived in Madison and once at a bonfire at your house in Stoughton. I got to ride one of your horses which made me very happy. I have always loved horses. I also remember Ron and Francie speaking at my (and Andy's) graduation ceremony. I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. May the promise of eternal life for every believer give you hope and peace. May Jesus be very close to you in the days ahead.

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