Mary Frahm

Mary Frahm

July 30, 1949 - December 09, 2022

Obituary

MCFARLAND – It is with profound sadness that the family of Mary L. Frahm announces her passing after a traumatic automobile event on Friday, Dec. 9, 2022. She was a beautiful, lovely, thoughtful and funny, fiancée, mother, sister, aunt and friend who will be dearly missed.


Mary was a Bizzy Bizzy lady (BZYL80). She started her career in banking and then went to work for Bisbee’s Carpets where she enjoyed working with customers and then became part owner. She moved on to working in real estate at Restaino Homes, a job she truly loved.


Mary loved meeting and helping people. She was very active in the McFarland and Dane County community events. She was also very active in the Madison Down Syndrome Association of Wisconsin, Down Syndrome of Wisconsin, GiGi’s Playhouse, Special Olympics, Buddy Walk, Friends of Lake Kegonsa, Four Lakes Yacht Club, McFarland Chamber of Commerce, Lioness, and local bowling league. She was an active participant of the Shared Table at McFarland Lutheran Church and the Loyal Order of the Caribbean Soul - Southern Wisconsin Parrot Head Club. You would frequently find Mary at the Anytime Fitness club or powerwalking around the neighborhood.


Mary was an avid UW football and basketball fan as a season ticket holder for many years. She loved traveling to Mexico and Florida with her family, friends and her Paul.


Mary is survived by her fiancé, Paul Kristapovich III; son, James “Jimmy” Smail-the light and joy of her life and his best friend Ron Gaussman; her bonus son, Paulie Kristapovich IV; brother, Michael Raschein Sr.; sisters, Janelle Raschein and Jill Raschein (Mary Dahl); nephews, Mike Raschein Jr. and Daniel Raschein; niece, Ashley (Nick) Ring and their children, Madison and Matthew; stepdaughter, Lisa (David) Small; step grandchildren, Morgan, Jack, Hanna and Nicholas; brothers-in-law, Gary Mott and Kelly Mott; sister-in-law, Mauren (Bob) Arndt; and adored feline companions, Lilly and Georgie. She was preceded in death by her husband, Michael Frahm; mother, Shirley Felton; father, Neil Raschein; brother, Mark Felton; and infant nephew, Joey Raschein.


A Celebration of Life will be held at SPARTAN BOWL, 4711 Farwell St., McFarland, Wis., from 1:30 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. on Saturday, July 29, 2023. Please wear tropical or Badgers themed clothing as a tribute to Mary. Think of your favorite stories or memories of Mary to share with all.


In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Mary’s name to the Dane County Humane Society. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson East

Funeral & Cremation Care

5203 Monona Drive

(608) 221-5420

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Memorial Service
Sat Jul 29, 2023 @ 1:30 PM - 4:30 PM CDT
Spartan Bowl • 4711 Farwell St., McFarland, WI 53558
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Cindy Kolb
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Mary your beautiful smile and kindness was known by many and will be missed. Jimmy and Paul so sorry for your loss. Words cannot fill the void left in your hearts but remember she loved you with her whole heart. Please reach out if/when you need. Mary Lee have a cold one and dance to a Buffett song with Mike and Robbie. You will be in my heart and I will smile with great memories.
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Thom Evans
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So sad to hear of Mary’s passing. I knew her through her involvement with Jimmy’s Special Olympics team. She was so proud of him and his good friend Ron! They and the rest of her family and many friends will be held deeply in our hearts. We’ll have your back Jimmy! Coach Thom
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Lanna Briggs
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I coached(volunteered) at the YMCA/special needs programs where my cousin, Ron Gausmann participated. I met his best buddy, Jim Smail thru that program. I then got to know Mary. She was so generous to Ron and included him on several adventures. Such a kind soul. RIP, Mary
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Sue Dahlen
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I was so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. I had the pleasure of serving with her on the board of the Madison Area Down Syndrome Society. She was a wonderful advocate and was extremely generous with her time. She volunteered at so many events. I can still picture her sorting a huge pile of Buddy Walk t-shirts with a smile on her face. My thoughts are with Jimmy and the rest of her family. She will be deeply missed.
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Deanne Funkhouser
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I got to know Mary at Anytime Fitness. We have been in the same workout group for about 3 years. She was always such a great inspiration. We developed a nice friendship and I really miss her positive, smiling self. My heartfelt condolences to Jimmy and Paul and the rest of her family. 💔
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Karen E Roder
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Mary was someone that loved everyone a d everything. A very Gentle soul! Rest In Piece Mary!!!

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