
Paul Jorgen Skalet
May 19, 1939 - June 08, 2020
Obituary
BLACK EARTH – Paul Jorgen Skalet, age 81, died on Monday, June 8, 2020, at the UW Hospital. He was the beloved son of Mildred (Mickelson) and Jorgen Skalet, born on May 19, 1939, in the Township of Vermont. Paul lived and served in the Black Earth community his entire adult life.
Paul was involved in numerous civic capacities and served his country in the U.S. Army Reserves. He was baptized and confirmed at Vermont Lutheran Church which he attended throughout his life. He was very proud of his Norwegian heritage. His car license stated, “Happiness is Being Norwegian”.
He graduated in 1957 from Black Earth High School and attended St. Olaf College, class of 1961, where he sang in the Viking Choir. He started his 47 year career at Black Earth State Bank as cashier and retired as President in 2008. He was married to Joan Swacina in 1965 and together they raised two children, Erika Forseth and Trygve.
His many hobbies and interests included furniture refinishing, avid Elkhart Lake race car fan, playing banjo with The Bards, Vermont Lutheran Church choir member, downhill skiing, golfing, World War II history, Black Earth history, casino-ing and reading obituaries faithfully enjoying the lives lived.
Paul loved music, especially Antonin Dvorak’s New World Symphony and attended many concerts of the St. Olaf Choir. He was an expert whistler and could harmonize with himself. His song repertoire was impressive from remembering Norwegian songs his father had taught him as a child to Limeliters and The Kingston Trio.
Paul and Joan enjoyed traveling, including summer weeks in northern Wisconsin, respites on the Texas gulf, houseboating the Mississippi River for their 25th anniversary, Hawaii, a river cruise on the Danube, World War II tour to Germany with Jon Urness to relive his uncles Gil and Maurice’s World War II tour, and Christmas markets in Munich.
He was a big brother to Joanne and Julie and enjoyed a large, loving, extended family of uncles, aunts, nieces and nephews and countless fun cousins.
Paul is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Joanie; a daughter and a son; two grandsons, Asher and Brady; sisters, four nieces, Amy (Paul), Jill (Randy), Emily (Tim) and Allison; and his only surviving beloved aunt, Dorothy Mae Rasmussen.
Preceding him in death were his parents; his extended in-laws; dear aunts and uncles; infant daughter, Kristin; and son-in-law, Harry Forseth.
Respecting COVID-19 guidelines, a Memorial Service with Military Rites will be held outdoors in the church parking lot at VERMONT LUTHERAN CHURCH, 9886 Vermont Lutheran Church Rd., Black Earth, on Saturday, June 13, 2020, at 3 p.m., with Pastor Barry Hoerz presiding. Visitation will be held in the church following the memorial service until 5 p.m. on Saturday. Pastor Hoerz will hold a private immediate family service in the church after the visitation.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Vermont Lutheran Church and the Black Earth Historical Society.
“Well done, Paul” – dear husband, loving father, proud grandfather, son, brother, uncle, cousin, friend, and Child of God.
Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson Camacho Black Earth
Funeral & Cremation Care
1710 Center St.
(608) 767-3684
Events
Memorial Service
Sat Jun 13, 2020 @ 3:00 PM CDT
Vermont Lutheran Church (Black Earth) • 9886 Vermont Church Road, Black Earth, WI 53515
Visitation
Sat Jun 13, 2020 @ 4:00 PM CDT
Vermont Lutheran Church (Black Earth) • 9886 Vermont Church Road, Black Earth, WI 53515
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Memories
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Francine Rask
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Sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. Enjoyed working with him on the Western Dane Thrivent Board.
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Kris Saucedo
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Paul and I had a special bond. He called me ART since I was a small child when I would visit my relatives in the Vermont Township every chance I could. He was also a favorite of my father's. Maybe because he played golf? He was a cousin I could look up to. He achieved so much in his lifetime. President of the bank was a very prestigious honor. As as kid I would think....wow he must be really rich if he is the president of the bank!!! I would cherish the times I would visit Black Earth to see Paul and family. He was a wonderful person and a special cousin. May God bless him and hopefully I'll see him in heaven! Love you.
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John J Boehnen
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I have many good memories of riding to work at the Bank of Madison at the beginning of his banking career. Prayers and thoughts are with the family.
John and Rose Boehnen.
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Rita K. Stanton
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I am saddened by Paul's death. Hold on to the good memories and times you have had....there is never enough time with our loved ones. God is good and will give you courage, strength and peace. I will remember his smile and ability to help everyone!!
With Love, Rita Stanton
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Dennis Rens
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Back in the 1960’s Sandi and I and Joanie and Paul both rented apartments in Elmer Thorson’s fourplex in Black Earth. While there are many special memories from that time, my favorite is when Paul would come home from the bank and without taking time to change out of his shirt and tie, he would go in the back yard with me and get down into his catchers’ crouch and warm up the old pitcher! Only a true friend would ruin a perfectly good shirt like that...and with a smile on his face all the while! I loved Paul like a brother.
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Erv Bendorf
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I was also amber of the Dodgeville Army Reserved. Paul was always a classy gentleman. I am from the Cobb area, moved to Madison in 1961. Godspeed til we meet again!