
Ernest Grinder
October 15, 1926 - December 24, 2019
Obituary
MOUNT HOREB-Ernest LeRoy Grinder, age 93, of Mount Horeb, passed away on Tuesday, Dec. 24, 2019, at Ingleside Communities. He was born on Oct. 15, 1926, in the Town of Perry, Wis., the son of Helmer and Olga (Oimoen) Grinder.
Ernest graduated from Mt. Horeb High School in 1945. He married Marion Jean Roach in September 1949 at Grace Lutheran Church in Dodgeville, Wis.
From a very young age, Ernest (Ernie) demonstrated a keen interest and talent for creative gadgetry. He was always making some kind of a “rig” to ride on making it out of most anything. He understood the inner workings of many things and could fix just about anything. As a farmer, these skills frequently came in handy. He farmed until the age of 45, and then worked for the Dane County Parks Department as a "caretaker" until his retirement in 1996. Ernie put his heart and soul into his work and passionately kept up the parks to a high standard of excellence. He especially loved mowing and not only mowed all the grass for the parks but took care of the yard at home and at Steven’s farm. Spending time outdoors was Ernie’s greatest enjoyment.
He had a shop in Daleyville that people would stop in with things for him to fix. Ernie was always ready for the challenge and he looked forward to the visits he engaged in with his customers, too.
Ernest loved people and he loved to visit and tell stories. A great American storyteller, he had a knack for telling a story that captivated his listeners. Ernie enjoyed family gatherings and his morning coffee “clutch” in Mount Horeb. He outlived many of the restaurants and so had to move locations as it became necessary.
He followed the Packers and Badgers and was a proud member of the NRA and the Mount Horeb Rifle Club. In his later years, he played dartball at the Senior Center in Mount Horeb.
Ernie’s love for cats was above and beyond. He took in stray cats and took care of so many cats during his lifetime, he had to double up on cat names. Tina was his favorite and preceded Ernie in death by only a couple of months. When he wasn't in the barn and spending time with his beloved cats in his cat shed, he was spending time with his biggest joy; his family. Blessed be his memory!
Ernest is survived by son, Steven Grinder; daughter, Susan Grinder; grandchildren, Gregory Grinder, Jamie (Colin Bethke) Grinder and Sarah (Matt) Sarbacker; great-grandchildren, Brett Grinder, Charles, Andrew and Adelyn Sarbacker and Blaine Bethke; and sister, Arlene Stark. He was preceded in death by his wife, Marion; his parents; two brothers, Albert Grender and Ralph Grinder; and sister, Ethel Skalet.
A special thanks to all of the wonderful staff at Ingleside Communities during his stay, Fresenius Kidney Clinic and the UW Kidney Clinic for the excellent care and compassion given to Ernie over the 10 years.
A funeral service will be held at PERRY LUTHERAN CHURCH, 1057 WI-78 Trunk, Mount Horeb, at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, Dec. 31, 2019, with the Rev. Nicole Espe presiding. Burial will be held at Perry Lutheran Church Cemetery. Visitation will be held at GUNDERSON CAMACHO FUNERAL & CREAMTION CARE, 500 N. Eighth St., Mount Horeb, from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. on Monday, Dec. 30, 2019, and also at the church from 10 a.m. until the time of the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the family of Ernest to be designated at a later date. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson Camacho Mount Horeb
Funeral & Cremation Care
500 N. Eighth Street
(608) 437-5077
Events
Visitation
Mon Dec 30, 2019 @ 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Camacho Funeral and Cremation Care - Mt. Horeb • 500 N. Eighth St., Mount Horeb, WI 53572
Visitation
Tue Dec 31, 2019 @ 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
Perry Lutheran Church • 1057 Hwy 78, Mt. Horeb, WI 53572
Service
Tue Dec 31, 2019 @ 11:00 AM CDT
Perry Lutheran Church • 1057 Hwy 78, Mt. Horeb, WI 53572
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My heart goes out to Steven and Suzie on the loss of their amazing father, Ernie. I met Ernie and his children at the Fresenius Kidney Clinic, after my mother started dialysis. I was happy to meet Ernie, because he had been on dialysis a long time and was older than my mother. Seeing Ernie, gave me hope for her future. Over the years, I've so much enjoyed talking with Ernie and hearing his stories. We were so amazed that Ernie was driving himself to dialysis in his 90s. Ernie had a remarkable zest for life. Watching his dialysis journey was truly inspirational. Ernie told me he would keep coming to dialysis, because "you never know what tomorrow might bring." When he left on Saturday, Ernie said to me, "I'll be back on Monday if I'm able." When he did not arrive on Monday, I worried. It wasn't until today that I learned of his passing on Tuesday, Christmas Eve Day. I will miss your father, his wisdom, his will to live, and his stories. His presence was a light that shown with goodness and steadfast hope. Blessed is his memory., Ann
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Ruth Gerke
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We were so saddened to hear of Ernie's passing. We had just visited him at the nursing home a couple weeks ago. He was always so glad to see us and always had great stories to share. He'd had an injury at the nursing home that left his arm terribly swollen and sore. Ernie was always in good spirits even when he was in great pain. We were always amazed how much Ernie knew. He was so knowledgeable about everything. We'll miss you dearly Ernie.
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Nick & Heidi Meier
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We are so sorry for your lose of your Dad Steve and Suzie. We always enjoyed talking to him at the farm, recycle center and Ingelside. I think he was able to get the full life out of any mower and he definitely got a full life with his family and friends and cats. We will dearly miss him.
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Jenny Johnson
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Ernie was always positive, friendly. Years ago when he worked at Stewart Park we became friends. As he parked his car in front of my office as he met his friends at Finks, we continued our hi, how are you. He will be missed.