Gene E.  Gray

Gene E. Gray

March 14, 1939 - January 23, 2020

Obituary

MIDDLETON - Devoted husband, father, bumpa and papa, Gene E. Gray succumbed to cancer with his wife by his side at Agrace HospiceCare on Thursday, Jan. 23, 2020. Gene was born on March 14, 1939, in Sparta, Wis. to Ioen and George Gray. Prior to moving to Madison, he lived his earliest years in various communities due to his father’s work with the Milwaukee Road Railroad. During his school years, Gene developed close friendships that were fostered and lasted his entire lifetime. A 1957 graduate of the former Central High School, Gene briefly served in the U.S. Army National Guard before studying education/PE and history at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. During the summers, he followed in his father’s and grandfather’s footsteps, working for Milwaukee Road as part of the line crew. Gene graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in 1962. Gene met his bride, Marge Johnson, while working with St. John’s Lutheran Church youth group; the two were married on Aug. 11, 1962. They moved to Harvard, Ill., where Gene taught Junior High PE, coached both JV basketball and track. Their daughter, Karen, was born in 1964 and in 1966, Gene completed his master’s degree in School Administration from the University of Northern Illinois. After moving to Middleton in 1967, their son John was born. Gene was hired by the Middleton Cross Plains-Area School District, teaching PE and Health at Kromrey Junior High, as well as coaching boys’ basketball and track. Gene became a Junior High Assistant Principal and then an Elementary School Principal. He spent 18 years as the Sauk Trail Elementary School Principal before ending his career at Sunset Ridge Elementary School. Gene was revered by teachers, parents and students. Working with children, particularly the “underdog” was his life’s calling. Gene was extremely active in the community; he served on the Middleton Library Board, as Middleton Recreational Director, chaired multiple of committees at St. Luke’s Lutheran Church, Morey Field Airport Commission, and Wisconsin River Rail Transit Commission. Gene served in several capacities for Middleton Outreach Ministry. Following retirement, he worked for Viterbo University, mentoring teachers who were completing course work to become principals. Albeit, Gene was passionate for the St. Louis Cardinals and UW Basketball, his true devotion was to his family, friends, community of educators and students as well as the community at St. Luke’s Church. Gene is survived by his wife, Marge Gray; daughter, Karen Gray (fiancée John Wood); granddaughter, Allyson Keller; grandson, Nicholas Keller; son, John Gray; daughter-in-law, Jodi Gray (Flocker); grandson Bryce Gray; and a multitude of close friends. A funeral service will be held at ST. LUKE’S LUTHERAN CHURCH, 7337 Hubbard Ave., Middleton, at 12 noon on Saturday, Feb. 1, 2020. Visitation will be held at the church from 9 a.m. until the time of the funeral on Saturday. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Middleton Outreach Ministry, the U.W. Carbone Cancer Center, or St. Luke’s Lutheran Church. Our family would like to express their heartfelt appreciation to those who compassionately cared for Gene along this journey: UW Carbone Center; UW Hospital and Clinics; Agrace HospiceCare; and close friends. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson West Funeral & Cremation Care 7435 University Ave. (608) 831-6761

Events

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Visitation
Sat Feb 1, 2020 @ 9:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
St. Luke's Lutheran Church • 7337 Hubbard Avenue, Middleton, WI 53562
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Service
Sat Feb 1, 2020 @ 12:00 PM CDT
St. Luke's Lutheran Church • 7337 Hubbard Avenue, Middleton, WI 53562
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Jennifer Roth
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Gene Gray will be missed in our community! He was an inspiration, a kind, thoughtful Christian man! Jennifer Roth
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Gloria Adell
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Sending prayers to you Marge & your family. It was sad to learn of Gene`s passing. May God give you strength daily to carry on , keep memories close to your hearts.. RIP Gene..
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Eric Colbert
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It was so long ago that I attended Sauk Trail Elementary, but Mr. Gray is one of the things that always stuck with me from my time there. I was living in a single parent home, trying to overcome some physical and emotional hurdles like so many young children do. I don’t know if it was just me, or if it’s just how he was, but I have so many memories of him taking the time to visit with me and take an interest in how I was doing. I’m sure he was great with all of his students, but he always made me feel special, and it still means the world to me 30 years later. He was truly a great man, and I’m very sad to hear this news. All my best to his family. He was a one of a kind educator, and he’ll stay in our hearts forever.
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Jim Boschuetz
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What a guy. He was indeed everyone's hero . He was mine in Jr High . Encouraging and supportive. Taught me humility . He always made time for any kid . May he rest in peace .
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Carol Brader
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Gene is a man who made a difference in Quail Ridge and in the lives of others. My favorite memories are when I was outside when Gene and Marge would drive by and either slow for an exchange of waves or stop for a neighborly chat. Fine people.
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Darce Olson
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Gene was truly a compassionate, caring, humble gentleman.. I have had the privilege of working with Gene on various committees at St. Luke's. He was well respected and a true leader in whatever capacity he was serving in. One of my favorite memories is when I applied to work in the school district. I was rather nervous going in for the interview, but was put at complete ease when I saw that Gene was one of the interviewers. Gene has been a wonderful friend and will be missed by all who knew him. May you rest in peace Gene in God's Loving arms.

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