Michael John Murray

Michael John Murray

April 24, 1981 - March 04, 2019

Obituary

MADISON-Our beloved son, brother, cousin, nephew, and friend, Michael John Murray, passed away on Monday, March 4, 2019, at UW Hospital, surrounded by his loving family. Mike was born on April 24, 1981, to John and Mary (Karlin) Murray. He had a lovely and carefree childhood in Monona, excelling in music. He was lucky enough to have his dad coach his soccer throughout his childhood, which sparked his love for the sport. He graduated from Monona Grove High School in 1999, and soon after moved to Portland, Ore., to study at the Emil Fries Piano School and under the tutelage of renowned Chopin virtuoso, Joanna Hodges. Although classical piano was his true calling, his brilliance in all things math became evident when he began to “study” poker. Michael did not just become a good poker player, he became an internationally recognized phenom. For almost a decade, Mike supported himself by winning big tournaments. He also organized many charity events that raised money for organizations including Hospice and Backpacks for Kids. Mike loved to travel the world with his friends, flirt with pretty girls, love on any dog he could, and crush juice boxes. He struggled with depression and addiction for 12 years. On Dec. 4, 2018, Michael began his recovery journey. He was three days shy of receiving his 90-day chip when he relapsed. We will never know why. Michael is survived by his parents, John and Mary Murray (Bill Odegaard); his siblings, Ruth, Christopher, and Molly (Tyrel) Zich; and his darling nephew, August Zich. He was preceded in death by both sets of grandparents; uncles, Mark, Rick, and Bill; aunt, Kibby; countless friends, many of them lost to the same horrible disease; and his dog, Tanner. Mike’s childhood circle of friends remains tight to this day and we offer our most sincere gratitude to those who’ve remained loyal and true right through to his very last hour. In the true spirit of Michael Murray, his last acts were to take blankets and food to a homeless encampment. Then he called his mama to apologize for taking all the chicken and biscuits from the fridge and to tell her how much he loved her. An hour later he used heroin for the last time. Opiate and heroin addiction have become a scourge upon our nation. We’d hoped that demon would be slain before it took our son. We offer our prayers and hope to all those who still suffer. Funeral services will be held at GUNDERSON FITCHBURG FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 2950 Chapel Valley Rd, Fitchburg, at 2 p.m. on Saturday, March 9, 2019. Visitation will be held at the funeral home from 10 a.m. until the time of the service on Saturday. Michael will be laid to rest at Blue Mounds Cemetery at a later date. A heartfelt thanks to the UW Hospital TLC Unit, especially Jenn, Bethany, and Andrew for your compassionate support. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson Fitchburg Funeral & Cremation Care 2950 Chapel Valley Rd. (608) 442-5002

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Sat Mar 9, 2019 @ 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Fitchburg • 2950 Chapel Valley Road, Fitchburg, WI 53711
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Sat Mar 9, 2019 @ 2:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Fitchburg • 2950 Chapel Valley Road, Fitchburg, WI 53711
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Michael Hanson
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Elaine Axtell Thomas
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Mary and family... May you always remember the joy that Michael brought to his family and friends. His brilliant mind, his humor, his kindness .... a few of the qualities that made him unique. I heard him play the piano on different occasions, and I was awed. He will be fondly remembered forever. My deepest sympathies to all of you. Elaine Axtell Thomas
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Kristin Roach
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I always loved when Mike came to a meeting at Agrace HospiceCare. He would arrive about 30 minutes early and play the piano near my desk. It was breathtakingly beautiful. He was such a gifted pianist, and a kind man. Heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.
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Tina Clements
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I first met Wisco in Aruba. Paul and Mark were still playing poker when I was first introduced to Mike. We were walking around waiting for them when we past a baby grand piano. Wisco asked me "Would you like a private concert?" I had no idea what i was about to hear. Unbelievable talent! I'll never forget that night nor my good friend. RIP Wisco♡
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Cheri Hiller
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Dear Mary, John, Ruth, Chris, Molly and more, I offer my sincerest condolences and love to all of you. Your family was key to Sam's early childhood (carefree!) upbringing, and I have many loving memories of Michael as a middle schooler. I am so very sorry that you are among those of us whose lives have been forever damaged by the effects of addiction. Your time with Michael was too short, and I am very sorry for that. Unfortunately a trip will keep me away from Michael's service, but know that I will be there in spirit. My prayers are with you all. Very sincerely, Cheri Hiller
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joannepriam@hotmail.com
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There aren't enough word, or the right words, to express the utter shock and sadness I felt at learning of Mike's (Wisco) passing. I was fortunate enough to meet Mike many many years ago - likely in Aruba, although the memories have blurred over time. From hanging out in the UB suite for weeks on end, summer over summer for years in Vegas, to jumping in the Radisson Aruba pools at midnight fully clothed, while still trying not to spill our drinks, to COLD nights smoking horrible cigars around Montreal for poker tournaments, to surviving hurricane-like weather in Bahamas - I always knew I was safe when Wisco was around. He was my friend, my "brother from another mother", an outstanding musician, a trusted confidante and an all around amazing guy that I was proud to call my dear friend. Having two sons of my own, I used to question him on his relationship with his mother, hoping that he'd give me that shred of hope that my sons would once again think I was cool, and would once again want to hang with me. He spoke often about how his Mom was his rock and how much he adored her. He was the first guy to ever give me that shred - and I'll never forget it. The world is a lonelier place today, but the angels hit jackpot as I know Wisco is up there playing those keys like nobody could. One thing I know for sure - and that is that there's not many folks who are as lucky as Wisco was in the friends department. He was loved near and far. I share my sincere condolences with Mike's dear family and friends and pray that the magical memories you undoubtedly have of this amazing soul will ease your pain as time goes by. RIP my dear sweet friend. P0ker J0 loves you! Until we meet again xoxooxoxox

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