Scott W. Wavra

Scott W. Wavra

July 15, 1966 - November 13, 2018

Obituary

MADISON-Scott Weston Wavra died in the loving embrace of his wife, Dawn, on Tuesday, Nov. 13, 2018, at Agrace HospiceCare in Fitchburg, Wis., at the age of 52. He was born on July 15, 1966, in Portage, Wis., to Patricia Lohr and Marlin Wavra. He married Dawn on Oct. 20, 2001 and was a member of First Unitarian Society in Madison, Wis. Scott graduated from Randolph High School and then served in the US Army from 1985 to 1989 as an Operating Room Specialist. He became ill with leukemia in 1989 as a result of his service and spent a number of years battling that disease and Graft vs. Host Disease (GVHD). He then returned to college, receiving an Associate Degree in General Studies from New Hampshire Community Technical College in 1999 and receiving his National Certification in Surgical Technology. His most recent employment was with Divine Savior Hospital in Portage, Wis., until 2003, when he again became ill with GVHD and related illnesses. Scott volunteered at a number of organizations, including the American Cancer Society, Disabled American Veterans, New England School of Archery, Dane County Humane Society, and First Unitarian Society. In addition, he felt a strong desire to contribute to the understanding of GVHD and participated in research at the National Cancer Institute. He also enrolled in the body donor program at the University of Wisconsin. Scott was a drummer, a motorcyclist, an Olympic target archer, and a movie enthusiast. He studied world religions and history for his own understanding; he was a deep thinker. Throughout his health struggles, he maintained his sense of humor and continued to adjust his expectations, practicing gratitude every day. He was profoundly grateful for his family, especially his grandson Wyatt, and proudly wore the title Bapa. He was brave, and he was compassionate towards all. Scott is survived by his wife, Dawn; his stepsons, Dustin Haag and Jonathan Haag; his grandson, Wyatt Haag; his parents; his sisters, Marin (Dale) Medema and Mardi (Tom) Neefe; his parents-in-law, Ronald and Corrinne Maki; sisters-in-law, Debbie Hefty (special friend Tom Thomas) and Roni Marie Maki; brothers-in-law, Daniel Maki (fiancee Jessica Powers), Joel Maki and Douglas Maki; paternal grandparents, Vernon and Ermina Wavra; his father’s wife, Gale Meister; and aunts and uncles, nieces and nephews, cousins, and numerous friends. He was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Robert and Elaine Lohr; his aunt, Sally Lohr; his sisters-in-law, Cate Maki and Laurie Maki; and his nephew, Ryan Maki. A Memorial service will be held at FIRST UNITARIAN SOCIETY, 900 University Bay Dr., Madison, at 1 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 24, 2018, with the family receiving friends from noon until the time of the service. A reception will follow. The family would like to express their gratitude to Dr. Natalie Callander, UW/VA Hematology Oncology, who treated Scott with expertise and kindness, and Agrace HospiceCare, who comforted both him and his family in his last few days. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care 5203 Monona Dr. (608) 221-5420

Events

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Visitation
Sat Nov 24, 2018 @ 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM CDT
First Unitarian Society (Madison) • 900 University Bay Drive, Madison, WI null
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Memorial Service
Sat Nov 24, 2018 @ 1:00 PM CDT
First Unitarian Society (Madison) • 900 University Bay Drive, Madison, WI null
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Ted Elias
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Scott was our neighbor and friend. He was a friend to me but more importantly my wife. The first word that I think of when I think of Scott is Kindness. My wife was a pedestrian hit by a car 14 years ago causing her to be wheelchair bound and suffer a severe traumatic brain injury. Never once did Scott see my wife as disabled or different. He fully embraced, accepted and loved her as she is, He would often visit her at our house while I was at work and do a puzzle with her. This might seem like a small thing in the eyes of some but to us it made an enormous impact on our lives and the quality of life for my wife, Scott and his wife Dawn were always such kind neighbors. We will always hold Scott's kindness dear to our hearts. Ted and Tabby Elias
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Marin Medema
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Brother – Today is full of memories of a Brother laid to rest and every fun memory filled with happiness and laughs. You were someone SO special to SO many and have always been such a joy to just be around. There was so much pain when it was time to let you go! That’s why this special message is sent to heaven above for the angels to take care of you and give you all our love. You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back, OR you can open your eyes and see all that he has left. You can remember him and only that he is gone OR you can cherish his memory and let it live on Love you Big Brother, Marin
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Erika Winchel
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Dawn, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember the day you two were married in the park!! What a glorious day!!! Take care!! Erika Winchel
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Judy Dehne
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There are too many memories that were made during the short time we lived a few blocks away from him. His drum playing, his laughter after a prank he pulled, the list is too long. He will always be in my heart & memories. My deepest sympathy to the whole family.
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Nancy McCulley
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Scott will always be Scotty to me... the little red-haired boy who dared me to chase him all summer long as I helped grandma babysit him. The world will miss your gentleness, kindness, inquisitiveness, and empathy.
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Jim Lohr
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1979, I was living in Wyoming and had a wonderful opportunity to have my nephew come stay with us (wife Tia) in Cheyenne., WY. Scott came to work with me all day installing utility lines for subdivisions. He wasn't given big jobs to do at 13 but always pitched in and did what he could. I owned a Subaru at the time, manual shift. We went out to a remote field outside of Cheyenne, and with a little instruction on driving, Scott took the wheel. Once out of first gear, he tore it up going around and around in circles, beaming a broad smile at his first driving experience. A fun memory for me. We went on a camping trip in the area of the photo. Medicine Bow, WY. We hiked from the parking lot to the ridge at the top, seeing deer, a herd of domestic sheep, and plenty of droppings, and up to the top we went. He was a great hiker and loved the experience as I did. Uncle Jim

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