Robert J. Tormey

Robert J. Tormey

October 19, 1928 - November 24, 2023

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MADISON - Robert J. Tormey, age 95, of Madison, passed away on Friday, Nov. 24, 2023, at St. Mary's Hospital. He was born on Oct. 19, 1928, in Madison, Wis., the son of John and Clara (Schauf) Tormey.


Bob graduated from Madison East in 1946 and the University of Wisconsin in 1950 with an accounting degree. He married his high school sweetheart, Ruth Schmelzer, on June 19, 1948, in Madison.


He completed ROTC in college and was proud of his military career. He served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War and later in the Army Reserves, retiring as a colonel.


Bob owned his own accounting firm, Robert Tormey and Associates. He was a charter member of St. Dennis Parish in Madison and was active in many church and school functions. Bob served as cubmaster of the Cub Scout Pack at St. Dennis for many years. He also enjoyed playing saxophone and singing. He played with the Monona band at retirement communities in the area, often joking that many in his audience were younger than he was. He volunteered for St. Vincent de Paul picking up donations from drop boxes and organizing other volunteers.


Robert is survived by his children; Jeffrey (Jean), Mark (Carol), Perry (Marilyn), Gail (Dean) Maly and Brian; daughter-in-law; Kay Tormey; brother, Donald (Audrey) Tormey; 13 grandchildren; and numerous great and great-great grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; his wife, Ruth; sons, Kevin and Joseph; and daughter-in-law, Kris Tormey.


A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at ST. DENNIS CATHOLIC CHURCH, 505 Dempsey Road, Madison, at 11 a.m. on Thursday, Nov. 30, 2023, with the Rev. Gary Krahenbuhl presiding. Entombment will be held at Roselawn Memorial Park. A visitation will be held at the church from 9 a.m. until the time of the Mass on Thursday.


In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to St. Dennis Catholic Church, Agrace HospiceCare or to the charity of your choice.


Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson East
Funeral & Cremation Care
5203 Monona Drive
(608) 221-5420



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Visitation
Thu Nov 30, 2023 @ 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
Queen of Apostles Parish, St. Dennis Church • 505 Dempsey Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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Livestream
Thu Nov 30, 2023 @ 10:59 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
Queen of Apostles Parish, St. Dennis Church • 505 Dempsey Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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Mass of Christian Burial
Thu Nov 30, 2023 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
Queen of Apostles Parish, St. Dennis Church • 505 Dempsey Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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Graveside Service
Thu Nov 30, 2023 @ 12:30 PM - 12:40 PM CDT
Roselawn Memorial Park • 401 Femrite Drive, Monona, WI 53716
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Military Honors
Thu Nov 30, 2023 @ 12:40 PM - 12:50 PM CDT
Roselawn Memorial Park • 401 Femrite Drive, Monona, WI 53716
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Luncheon After Burial
Thu Nov 30, 2023 @ 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM CDT
Queen of Apostles Parish, St. Dennis Church • 505 Dempsey Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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Bev Yelczyn
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Gail and Tormey brothers, sooooo many good memories of your dad and his exuberance for life. His campfire stories and songs 🎵 are still a part of my life whenever I 'm at a bonfire. "The other day, the other day; I saw a bear, I saw a bear....." is an earworm I will never forget (and have impressed many friends with). I love you all and am sending BIG HUGS💓💔. Bev Yelczyn
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Kathy Regez
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Bob & Ruth were part of my St Dennis prayer warriors when I had cancer. Their strong faith & belief in God, helped sustain me. I will treasure their support & friendship always. Rest in our Savior’s love. Kathy Regez
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Badger Honor Flight
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The service from your loved one will never be forgotten from the continued memories by you and your family. Keep them in your heart and always cherish the service they provided for all of us to live comfortably and enjoy our beautiful country. Please accept my sincere condolences on the behalf of the Badger Honor Flight family on the loss of your fallen hero.
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Eric Fleming
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Our sincere prayers, thoughts, and condolences to the Tormey Family. Bob and Ruth were long term supporters to St. Vincent de Paul. Bob was a volunteer and conference member. Their compassion, care, and commitment to helping our neighbors in need was beyond inspirational. Thank you Bob and Ruth for being community change agents. May the perpetual light shine upon you. The world was blessed by your love and care. -Eric Fleming, St. Vincent de Paul - Madison.
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Juli O'Leary Hillebrand
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To the entire Tormey family, I extend my deepest sympathies in Bob's passing. I had the distinct honor of accompanying Bob on his Badger Honor Flight as his guardian. It was then that I learned how he came to be the wedding singer at my parents' wedding in 1950. Since both of my parents have passed, I was able to learn how Bob and Ruth knew my mom and dad. As we visited the Korean Memorial in Washington, a group of Korean tourists were also at the memorial. Through an interpreter, they approached our Korean veterans and thanked them for their service. It was deeply moving, especially to Bob. Prayers with all of you at this time.
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Jeff Holmes
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I wanted to pass on my sincere condolences to Mark, Perry,and Gail. So difficult to loose a parent anytime in life. Glad you had so much time with him.

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