Donald G. Marty

We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ Gunderson Funeral Home - Middleton

When I think of Don, I see a man who lived life wide open — pool parties splashing with laughter, brats sizzling on the grill, and the convertible club rolling down the road with the top down and the world wide open in front of us. He worked hard, he partied hard, and he made sure everyone around him felt like part of the family. His hands were always creating something. Wine in the basement. Wood stacked just right. Rocks split perfectly for the fireplace. And outside, his garden — that was its own masterpiece. Flowers, plants, colors everywhere, each one cared for with the same pride and patience he put into everything he touched. You could walk through it and feel his personality in every corner: vibrant, steady, full of life. Friday night fish fries were a ritual, not just a meal. He’d walk in with that grin, ready for a cold one, ready for a laugh, ready for whatever the night brought. And no matter what was going on, he was always there for Eileen and me — steady, loyal, and present in the ways that matter most. We cut wood together, split stones together, shared wine, shared stories, and built a lifetime of memories. He didn’t just show up for the big moments. He showed up for all the moments. That’s who he was. These memories aren’t just stories. They’re the pieces of a man who lived fully, loved deeply, and left a mark on every one of us lucky enough to be part of his circle. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family. May these memories bring comfort, and may they always feel the strength of the love he left behind.

Aaron - Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

My late husband Jim and I also belonged to the Madison Convertible Club. One of our favorite rides was when Don would host it and it would end at his home with a wonderful potluck. I especially enjoyed his veal bratwursts. Don had such beautiful flowers, but the highlight of the evening was going down to his wine cellar where he keep all of the different wines he made. He always had a joke and sometimes they were very colorful! He will be missed. My deepest sympathies to his entire family, Lynn Budinetz

We met Don and Lory through Compasionate Friends after their son Donny died. We were also friends through the Madison Convertible Club. Enjoyed parties at their lovely home. Especially his wine! Hugs from the Von Behrens.