Charlotte E. Neider
November 18, 1923 - December 13, 2018
Obituary
MIDDLETON-Charlotte E. (Wrede) Neider, age 95, died on Thursday, Dec. 13, 2018. Charlotte “Heija” was born in Dorndorf, Germany on November 18, 1923. She married Norman in 1948. They had three children, Charles (Terri), Michael (Rosemary) and Barbara (Dan) Stolper. Charlotte was preceded in death by her husband in 2001. She is survived by her children; seven grandchildren, Adam, David, Katie, Sarah, Christopher, Andrew and Caitlyn; her brother, Hans Wrede and his two children, Susanne (Harald) Koch and Juliana (Uwe) Ferrai and their families. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at ST. BERNARD CATHOLIC CHURCH, 7450 University Ave., Middleton, at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Dec. 22, 2018, with Father Brian Wilk presiding. Burial will be at Sunset Memory Gardens. Visitation will be held at the church from 9:30 a.m. until the time of the Mass on Saturday.
“I’ll see you when I see you.” In Gottes Namen.
The family wishes to extend a very special thanks to Dr. John Ewalt, for his decades of expert and compassionate care for Charlotte, and to the Visiting Angels and St. Mary’s Care Center staff for their outstanding care and friendship.
Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson West
Funeral & Cremation Care
7435 University Avenue
(608) 831-6761
Events
Visitation
Sat Dec 22, 2018 @ 9:30 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
St. Bernard Catholic Church (University) • 7450 University Avenue, Middleton, WI null
Mass of Christian Burial
Sat Dec 22, 2018 @ 11:00 AM CDT
St. Bernard Catholic Church (University) • 7450 University Avenue, Middleton, WI null
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Memories
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Janet Bates
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Our condolences to all the Neiders on the loss of your mom and grandmother. Charlotte and my mom Arline Kaisler worked together at Schultz Bros. Variety store too many years ago. They enjoyed each other's company and become good friends. Likewise their daughters Barb and me (Janet Kaisler).
Mom told stories of Charlotte walking to work and looking for loose change on the ground. This was her "pin" money never reported to the meticulous record-keeper Norman. (A dear in his own way).
Charlotte was a kind and generous woman who enjoyed having Barb's friends stop by for a visit. I do remember that tiny glass of brown liquid being quietly shoved behind the flour canister if we did happen to pop in unannounced. We always pretended not to notice.
Let's all pull out our tiny glasses of favorite beverage and make a toast to a lovely woman who lived her life with a passion for family and friends. Rest in peace Charlotte and say "hi" to my mom.
Janet Kaisler Bates
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Therese Traut
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So very sorry for your loss, Mike.
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Kelly Fronk
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Our sympathy and prayers extend out to the Neider family on the loss of your mother/grandmother.
Love, Rob & Kelly Fronk
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Sue
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So sorry for your loss, your mom and our mom were such good friends. Celebrating their back to back birthdays. I went to see her the end of October, so glad I did. I would stop and visit when ever I got to Middleton. I will miss her and our visits . Sue Judd Bergey
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Hannah
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Dear family of Charlotte, My name is Hannah and I worked with Charlotte about a year and a half ago as a caregiver. I want to apologize for not making it to the funeral. I just found out about her passing this morning and I’m very sorry I wasn’t there for it yesterday. I would have been there in a heartbeat. Charlotte meant a lot to me. She was so kind, funny, a great listener. She reminded me a lot of my grandma. Charlotte was always caring and so selfless. She loved her grandkids so much and her children. She talked highly of all her family. I loved sitting with Charlotte. We watched Ellen together and laughed all the time. Charlotte was so welcoming to me. She became a friend to me in many ways. I have many wonderful memories of Charlotte. I’m so very sorry for the loss of your mother/grandmother. I hope you find comfort in knowing she is at peace and eternal rest. I will miss her a lot and always carry her in my heart. -Hannah Tyler