
Thelma M. (Hart) Zerbel Bender
June 26, 1937 - July 26, 2019
Obituary
MADISON - Thelma M. (Hart) Zerbel Bender, age 82, of Madison, passed away on Friday, July 26, 2019, at Meriter Hospital. She was born on June 26, 1937, in Willow Township, Wis., the daughter of Leslie M. and Catharine E. (Parfrey) Hart. Thelma graduated from Richland Center High School in 1955. In July of 1955, she married Vaughn M. Bender with whom she raised two sons, Gary and Bruce. Vaughn preceded her in death in 1995. In September 2003, she married Allen Zerbel.
Above all, Thelma loved spending time with her family, including but not limited to her brothers and sisters, her children, and grandchildren. She was also an avid scuba diver with Vaughn and their sons. She loved watching and reading current events with Allen. You could always count on her to make the most amazing cakes for her grandchildren. She loved giraffes and enjoyed crocheting for friends and family and she was an avid gardener.
Thelma is survived by her husband, Allen; sons, Bruce (Miriam) Bender and Gary (Dawn) Bender; step-daughter, Marjorie (Tom) Lindow; step-sons, Gordon (Vicki) Zerbel and Jack (Marie) Zerbel; granddaughters, LeAnna (Travis) Bender, Allison Bender and Astrid Bender; grandsons, Neil Bender and Theo (Deanna) Bender; step-granddaughters, Kathryn (Jackson) Wynne and Emily Zerbel; step-grandson, David (Katherine) Lindow; step-great-granddaughter, Jacelyn Wynne; and many dear relatives and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents; and husband, Vaughn M. Bender; two brothers, Lawrence (“Bud”) and Baron (“Buzz”); and six sisters, Darlene, Virgina, Sharon (“Sherry”), Lesta, Marilyn and Carolyn.
A funeral service will be held at GUNDERSON EAST FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 5203 Monona Dr., Madison, at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, July 30, 2019, with the Rev Elisa Brandt presiding. Luncheon will follow at the funeral home. Burial will follow at Sunset Memory Gardens. Visitation will be held at the funeral home from 9 a.m. until the time of the service on Tuesday. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson East
Funeral & Cremation Care
5203 Monona Drive
(608) 221-5420
Events
Visitation
Tue Jul 30, 2019 @ 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Madison • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
Service
Tue Jul 30, 2019 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Madison • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
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Memories
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Patricia Clark
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Today I am remembering all the good times we shared at our 1955 class reunions and homecoming parades over the 64 years since graduating from RCHS. Peace.
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Shirley Steiner
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My sympathies to the family. Have fond memories of Thelma in high school.
Shirley Spangler Steiner
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Nina Soltwedel
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Thelma and I were "joined at the hip" has youngsters, and she's been one of my dearest friends in the years since. I will miss my childhood buddy very much. My condolences are extended to the family; you all are i my prayers. -- Nina Lee Soltwedel