
Patricia "Pat" Coakley
January 21, 1940 - October 04, 2020
Obituary
SUN PRAIRIE - Patricia Kuchan “Pat” Coakley, age 80, passed away peacefully on Sunday, Oct. 4, 2020, at Brookdale Senior Living in Sun Prairie.
Mom was born in Canton, Ill., on Jan. 21, 1940, the daughter of Rudolph and Victoria Kuchan. “Patty” grew up with many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. She loved to fish with her dad and work in his vegetable gardens, especially the tomato beds. She was given her first BB gun when she was 8 years old. Mom may have been somewhat of a tomboy, but her grace and beauty also led to her title of homecoming princess during her senior year at Canton Senior High School.
She graduated from Brown’s Secretarial College in Peoria, Ill., and moved to Wisconsin to raise her family. Mom worked for the Wisconsin Legislative Council until her retirement in 2004. She was very proud of the work she did for the agency as a budget analyst and established many of her closest and most enduring friendships with the people she met there.
Mom’s family and friends often said she was the smartest person they knew. She loved crossword puzzles, libraries, newspapers, sewing, gardening, and having a burger with her friends. Mom was so interested in government and geography that she asked for the gift of an atlas so she could look up the countries she read about in the newspaper. She was a skilled gardener who freely shared her knowledge, plants and time with family, friends and the occasional passerby who paused to admire her work. Mom loved to celebrate holidays and birthdays with family and friends and hosted wonderful parties. She was a beautiful person, inside and out and a beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin, and true friend.
Mom is survived by her daughter, Allison Coakley; two sons, Kevin (Karen) Coakley and Michael Coakley; three grandchildren, Sara Coakley, Jack Coakley and Gracie Coakley; sister, Marianne Zike; nieces, Lynn (Patrick) Shaffer and Lisa Hartshorne; nephew, Steve (Marci) Hartshorne; and many other dear family members and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents; brother-in-law, Eric Zike; and her very best friend in the world, Mary Dahlstrom.
Private services will be held with a public Celebration of Life next spring. Our family would like to thank the staff at Brookdale Senior Living for the respectful and loving care mom received during her stay there. We also thank the kind nurses and social workers from Agrace HospiceCare for the medical support and counsel they provided both mom and our family. If you care to make a donation, the family suggests Agrace HospiceCare.
We love you mom. You will live in our hearts forever. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson East
Funeral & Cremation Care
5203 Monona Drive
(608) 221-5420
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Kevin Coakley
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Mom,
I really miss you and love you very much.
Kevin
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Lisa Hartshorne
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Aunt Pat I will always cherish the times we had over the years You have a special place in my heart and will be missed I love you - My condolences to Allison, Kevin and Mike
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MICHAEL COAKLEY
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My Mom was very talented with everything she attempted, and I have been very proud and in awe of her my entire life. Thank You Mom for everything you did for me. You will be in my thoughts every day...Michael
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Ray & Virgie Snyder
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Allison, Kevin, Mike
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. Your cousins in Canton have great memories to cherish. Love to you all. Ray & Virgie (Urbanc) Snyder
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Mary Richardson
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Allison, Kevin and Michael - your mom was so special to all of us and it was so wonderful that her and Mary could be wonderful life long friends. They supported each other and their friendship was to be admired. We thoroughly enjoy our families friendship and all the wonderful times that we’ve had together over the years. Your family has always been wonderful hosts to us and your mom always made visits extra special with her attention to detail. Thoughts and prayers to you all. Travis, Mary & Raina
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Ron Sklansky
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Allison and family--my condolences on the loss of Pat. We worked together at the Legislative Council for 29 years. She was one of the backbones of the staff and, along with the work, we had many laughs about office and legislative hijinks. And those office parties!