Pamela  Jane  "Pam" Steffen

Pamela Jane "Pam" Steffen

October 29, 1954 - June 01, 2022

Obituary

FITCHBURG - Pam (Stoffel) Steffen passed away peacefully on Wednesday, June 1, 2022, with her family by her side. She was born to Lambert and Patricia Stoffel and raised in Madison, Wis.  First and foremost, Pam was a loving wife to Mike, adoring and devoted mother to Corrine, and loyal sister to Judy and Mary. She made friends easily and sustained long-lasting friendships with many.


Pam was good storyteller, recounting many a humorous misadventure from her youth. She was creative and had many talents and interests. Pam was a 30-year veteran of Sievers School of Fiber Arts where she learned the art of basketry, weaving baskets that are truly works of art. She had a core group of “Sievers friends” that met each year for a weekend of good food, laughter and sometimes they got around to weaving.  


Pam had discerning and eclectic tastes when it came to decorating and maintaining her beautiful home. She and her husband, Mike, shared a love of cooking and entertaining, bringing a great many family and friends together for occasions large and small. They were members of a neighborhood gourmet group, gathering to share in a variety of delicious culinary creations, good wine and neighborly banter.


Pam and Mike enjoyed many hours tending to the bountiful flower and vegetable gardens around their home.  They also enjoyed traveling together, recently taking a memorable trip to Italy in 2019 with her sister, Judy, and brother-in-law, Mike. Pam was also a volunteer with Special Olympics of Wisconsin and Agrace HospiceCare, a past leader and Community Chair for the Verona/Fitchburg Girl Scouts. She also enjoyed playing golf and pickle ball.


Taken from us too soon, Pam will be dearly missed by her husband, Mike, of 44 years; her daughter, Corrine; sisters, Judy (Mike) Dukatz and Mary (Chuck) Corbett; nieces and nephews, Jack, Tom, Kelly and Sam; along with many extended family members.


We will remember Pam’s smile, her warmth, her energy, her love for life, family and friends. We take comfort knowing that Pam has eternally joined her parents, Lambert and Patricia Stoffel. Pam encouraged those that knew her to:  not give up, not to wait to try something new, keep moving forward and especially, to have a good network of friends.


In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Steffen family, which will go towards a dedication in Pam’s name at Sievers School of Fiber Arts, or donations may be made to the Special Olympics of Wisconsin.


The family will hold a private ceremony and interment. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson Fitchburg

Funeral & Cremation Care

2950 Chapel Valley Road

(608) 442-5002



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My deepest sympathies on the passing of Pam. Sending thoughts of love & comfort during this difficult time.
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Sue Hoverson
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I worked with Pam from the day she started at AmFam until the day she retired. We traveled together for work a lot and over the years I could see how much she loved her family and how much she loved life. Rest in peace my friend.
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Kathy Brugman
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Loved golfing with Pam and wow she was a great cook. She used to bring the tastiest most creative dishes to our golf parties. She will be missed.
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Mary Kay Hietpas
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Pam we always had so much fun together in basket weaving class at Sievers. You certainly will be missed this year and for many years to come. We will be sharing memories and drinking a toast to our friendship all these years! Love you, Mary Kay Hietpas
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Jan Haedt
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Thinking of you, Mike and Corrine, along with the rest of your families. I enjoyed leading Corrine and Beth’s Girl Scout Troop with Pam and appreciated her many talents. May you find comfort in sweet memories. Jan and Jim Haedt
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Joanne Hansen
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Pam was a wonderful, kind, soft spoken co worker and mentor. Worked with her for many years, always enjoyed talking with her. Condolences to all her family and friends.

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