MADISON, Wis. / BUFFALO, N.Y. - Roger W. “Jerry” Putnam Jr. passed away peacefully on March 26, 2025, in Madison, Wis.

Roger, known to friends and family as “Jerry,” was born in Buffalo in 1936 and lived there for nearly all of his 89 years. He was a huge Bills fan and a beloved member of the community. His presence brought joy and warmth to many who knew him. Roger's dedication to his extended family was most notable.

He was known for his kindness, comedy and unwavering support for those around him. His legacy will live on through the countless lives he touched and the memories he created.

Roger was a proud graduate of Nichols School (1954), attended Willams College and served in the U.S. Army (Sergeant). His career path was as colorful as his personality and included work as a real estate agent, liquor store owner, director of the Mayor's Task Force on Property Crime, arson investigator and, finally, as a private investigator. He also relished his role as Sergeant at Arms for the Lorenzo Burrows Jr. American Legion Post 78 color guard. His professional accomplishments exemplified his adaptability and dedication.

Roger was preceded in death by his twin sister, Judith Smith; wife, Judy (nee Richards); and son, Edward “Ted” Putnam. He is survived by his son, Roger W. Putnam III; ex-wife, Diana Dillaway (mother of Ted and Roger); sister, Charlotte "Sunny" Davis; brother, Dr. Theodore Putnam; and sisters, Gail Putnam and Candice Rivet-Carnack. He was beloved by his grandchildren, Hana (Chakalian), Lucy and Ingrid; and great-grandchildren, Theo and Ole. Roger also leaves behind countless nieces, nephews and extended family who affectionately called him “Uncle Harry.”

Perhaps Roger’s most special achievement was playing tenor drum for the Caledonian Pipes and Drums marching band. He loved marching in parades and entertaining the crowds. Roger was a fountain of entertainment and witticism, always bringing laughter and joy to those around him.

As he liked to say about living life: “De gustibus non est disputandum.” To taste there is no dispute.

A celebration of life gathering will be held at DUENDE AT SILO CITY, 85 Silo City Row, Buffalo, N.Y., from 4:30 p.m. until 6:30 p.m. on Monday, July 7, 2025. For more information and online condolences, please visit www.gundersonfh.com.

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Roger Wright Putnam, Jr.

February 02, 1936 - March 26, 2025

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