Philip T. O'Brien

Philip T. O'Brien

November 14, 1929 - April 30, 2026

Obituary

MADISON - Philip Thomas O’Brien, a man of sharp wit, intellect, and deep devotion to his family, passed away on Thursday, April 30, 2026, at the age of 96. ​Born in Boscobel, Wis., Philip was the son of Paul Stephen O’Brien and Mary Ann (Chlan) O’Brien. He was the second of eight children, growing up in a household that instilled in him a foundation of resilience and a curious mind.


​A pivotal chapter of Philip’s life began when he joined the Peace Corps and was stationed in Southfield (St. Elizabeth), Jamaica. It was there that he met the love of his life, Merlyn. Their meeting sparked a 51-year marriage and a lifelong love affair with the country and people of Jamaica, a place that remained close to his heart forever.


​Philip was a man who took great pride in his intellect. He often shared with confidence that he was known to be the smartest person to have ever lived in the State of Wisconsin. Beyond his intellectual pursuits, Philip was an avid outdoorsman who loved to hunt and fish.


​Philip is survived by his beloved wife, Merlyn; his daughters, Nicola and Fredericka; his son-in-law, Norman Jr; his granddaughter, Natalya; and his grandson, Nikita. He also leaves behind his sister, Mary Clare Hatlen; and a large extended family of brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, nieces, and nephews who will miss his steady presence. He was preceded in death by his parents; infant brothers, Lawrence and James; along with siblings, Paul J., John G., Thomas F., and Stephen J. O'Brien; as well as sisters, Ann Hollibush and Jean Ruegsegger.


​Philip’s legacy lives on in the family he adored, the woods and waters he loved, and the legendary brilliance he shared with everyone.


​A visitation will be held at GUNDERSON EAST FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, from 12 noon until 4 p.m. on Thursday, May 21, 2026


Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson East

Funeral & Cremation Care

5203 Monona Drive

(608) 221-5420




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Visitation
Thu May 21, 2026 @ 12:00 PM - 4:00 PM CDT
Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
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A Memorial Tree was planted for Philip Thomas O’Brien
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ Gunderson Funeral Home - Madison
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Janice Aberle
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We are so sorry for your loss,Phil was such a good caring man.Sending you and the family all our love. Janice and Rusty
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Sara Gill
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We sure enjoyed talking with Phil over the years. He truly was a very intelligent man and had a great sense of humor! We are very sorry for your loss. Dave and Sara
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Grace Wagner
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I loved having you as my unofficial grandpa. Taking Nikita and I out places and was always making sure we were having fun. I will always cherish those moments and will always be greatful I had you in my life ❤️
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Tornado Gooden
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Dearest Aunt Marilyn,My heart truly aches for you as you navigate the loss of Phillip. He was such a remarkable person, and his presence always brought a sense of calm and genuine kindness to our family gatherings.It was always so clear how much he adored you; the way he looked at you really showed the depth of the life and love you built together over the years. While no words can ease the pain of his absence, I hope the many beautiful years you shared bring you some peace during the difficult days ahead.We are all here for you, ready to support you in whatever way you need—whether it’s a helping hand or just a quiet space to share a story about him.Sending you all my love and deepest condolences, Your Nephew Tornado & Family
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Condolences from the Klug family.

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