Vernon J. Strutzel

Vernon J. Strutzel

March 14, 1939 - January 04, 2026

Obituary

STOUGHTON - Vernon J. Strutzel, age 86, of Stoughton, passed away peacefully on Sunday, January 4, 2026, at St. Mary’s Hospital. He was born on March 14, 1939, in Aurora, Minn., the son of Joseph and Elsie Carlson Strutzel.


Vern grew up in Aurora and graduated from Aurora High School. He proudly served in the United States Army and later earned an associate degree. A lifelong learner and adventurer, Vern also obtained his pilot’s license, a reflection of his curiosity and love of new challenges. He spent the majority of his life in Stoughton, Wis., where he built his career, friendships, and family life.


While working for the Illinois Railroad, Vern met Nancy Hoekstra. They married and together welcomed three children, Candice, Soni and Chad. Their marriage later ended, and Vern was blessed to find love again when he married Janet Tracy. Together they welcomed a fourth child, Aaron. Janet sadly passed away from cancer in 2004. Several months later, Vern met Barbara Corcoran at grief counseling. They married in 2008 and shared 15 years together until Barbara’s passing in 2023. Vern often said he was fortunate to have had three great wives, and he missed each of them deeply.


Vern was the owner of the Quill and Brush Gallery in Stoughton, where he shared his creativity and passion for woodworking and art for many years. He retired in 2017, though he never truly stopped creating. If he was not at home working on a project in his shop, he could often be found on the golf course at Stoughton Country Club, where he was a longtime member. True to his modest nature, Vern rarely mentioned that he had three holes in one, so his family is happy to share that accomplishment now.


Vern had a great sense of humor and loved telling jokes and playing lighthearted pranks on those around him. He enjoyed golfing, woodworking, traveling to Arizona, and most of all, spending time with his family.


Vern is survived by his four children, Candice Graf and her husband, Bill, Soni Haag and her husband, Chris, Chad Strutzel, and Aaron Strutzel and his wife, Jessie. He is also survived by nine grandchildren and four great grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his wives, Nancy, Janet and Barbara; his grandson, Jackson Dempsey; his parents. Joseph and Elsie Strutzel; and his sister, Marilyn Nickerson.

A celebration of life will be held at Stoughton Country Club, 3165 Shadyside Drive, Stoughton, from 1 p.m. until 4 p.m. on Saturday, May 9, 2026. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


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Celebration of Life
Sat May 9, 2026 @ 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM CDT
Stoughton Country Club • 3165 Shadyside Dr., Stoughton, WI 53589
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A Memorial Tree was planted for Vernon J. Strutzel
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ Gunderson Funeral Home - Madison
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Rose Krantz Boehnen
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Many wonderful memories in Stoughton and AZ. Great friends. They will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers to the family. John and Rose Boehnen
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Rodney and KT Slinde
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Had many great times with Vern and each of his wives. We were at his and Jans wedding. He was a definite "Gentleman ". Our prayers and thoughts are with the family. RIP Vern
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Lucy Wall
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To Vern’s family: we met Vern in our Agrace Grief support group in 2005. We were all widows and widowers hoping to find our way through grief and into the future. Vern was warm, friendly, gregarious, full of life. And so was Barb Corcoran! It was lovely to see them connect, as did we, the two couples that married having met in that group. May your lives reflect qualities similar to Vern’s. Regards, Lucy Wall and Steve Miller
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The Tahlier Family
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Although we didnt have the privilege of knowing your father, we know how deeply he was loved by all of you. Holding you in our hearts and prayers.

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