STOUGHTON - Pamela K. Alexander, age 73, of Stoughton, passed away on Saturday, December 13, 2025, at SSM Health-St. Mary's Hospital. She was born on February 4, 1952, in Madison, the daughter of Kenneth and Virginia "Toots" (Nelson) Ahrens.

Pamela graduated from La Follette High School in 1970. She worked for Stoughton Trailers for many years. She cherished every moment with her family, especially her beloved grandchildren. When her boys were growing up, Pamela’s home was the place everyone wanted to be. Filled with laughter, love, and a welcoming spirit, her house became the heart of countless memories. Pam had a passion for traveling, a love for live music and Lifetime and Hallmark movies, and a lifelong devotion to the Packers. Her friendships ran deep-she continued to gather with friends from her grade school days.

Pamela is survived by her three sons, Mike (Lane) Alexander, Matt (Heather) Alexander and Mark (Sara) Alexander; significant other, Bill Doughtie; grandchildren, Ethan, Shea, James, Remy, Everett, Lily, Hilty and Mila; siblings, Mary (Bill ) Ahrens, Debbie (Doug) Smith, Vicki (Mike) Ahrens and Patty (Chris) Ahrens-Brady; half-sisters, Meredy Highley and Barbara Hauge; half-brother, John Ahrens; and several nieces, nephews and other relatives and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents; and half-sister, Judy Ahrens.

A funeral service will be held at GUNDERSON EAST FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, at 12 noon on Friday, December 26, 2025. Burial will take place at Roselawn Memorial Park. Visitation will be held at the funeral home from 10 a.m. until the time of the service on Friday.

The family wishes to thank the staff at St. Mary's Hospital ICU unit for all of their wonderful care given to Pam. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.

Gunderson East
Funeral & Cremation Care
5203 Monona Drive
(608) 221-5420

Pamela K. Alexander

February 04, 1952 - December 13, 2025

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