Keith S McNeese

Keith S McNeese

October 12, 1963 - September 01, 2025

Obituary

LODI - Keith S. McNeese, age 61, passed away on Monday, September 1, 2025, at his home with his family at his side. He was born on October 12, 1963, in Decatur, IL, the son of Everett W. and Helen A. (Chladny) McNeese.


After graduating from Washington High School in Washington, IL., Keith attended Illinois Wesleyan University where he earned his bachelor’s degree and played baseball. On September 18, 1993, he married Vicki Berman in Arlington Heights, IL. He was employed with American Family Insurance for over 35 years.


Keith was the president of the DeForest Norski Soccer Club for many years. He wanted to create a strong community for the kids of DeForest to have fun and grow as players and people. Keith played sports and was an avid outdoorsman. He enjoyed basketball, baseball, golf, soccer, boating, fishing, hunting, yardwork, and gardening. Keith was passionate about coaching his kids in basketball, baseball, and soccer and attending their college games. He honored family traditions and created many of his own, always bringing people together. Keith was loyal to his friends and generous with his time. He shared a special bond with his father and was devoted to his wife and kids. Keith was an intelligent, witty, nurturing, selfless, loving man. His gentle spirit and infectious laugh will live forever in our memories.


In addition to Vicki, Keith’s wife of almost 32 years, survivors include: his children, Kyle (Lauren), Wesley (Alaina Wittig) and Jordan (Mark Segbers); father, Everett (Juanita) McNeese; brother, Kevin (Elise) McNeese; sister, Monica King; uncle, Bill (Dorothy) Chladny; aunt, Doris Robertson; father-in-law, Seymour Berman; sister-in-law, Audrey (Cliff) Surges; brothers-in-law, Gary (Lauri) Berman, Dan (Nikki) Berman and Jeff (Edee) Rennick; and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. He was preceded in death by his mother, Helen McNeese; grandmothers, Anna Chladny and Minerva McNeese; mother-in-law, Lois Berman; and sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Jill and Dave Autzen.  


A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at ST. MAXIMILIAN KOLBE PARISH AT ST. PATRICK CATHOLIC CHURCH, 521 Fair St., Lodi, at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, September 9, 2025, with Father Anthony Kersting presiding. Burial will follow at Garden Bluff Cemetery. Visitations will be held at GUNDERSON LODI FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 157 S. Main St, Lodi, from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. on Monday, September 8, 2025, and at the church on Tuesday from 9:30 a.m. until the time of the Mass.


In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Brain Aneurysm Foundation at https://www.bafound.org.


A special thank you to all the wonderful doctors, nurses, therapists, and caregivers who cared for Keith in his last few years. Thank you to Father Anthony Kersting for his prayers for Keith and the family at their home.


Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson Lodi

Funeral & Cremation Care

157 S. Main St.

(608) 592-3201



Events

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Visitation
Mon Sep 8, 2025 @ 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Lodi Funeral & Cremation Care • 157 S. Main St., Lodi, WI 53555
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Visitation
Tue Sep 9, 2025 @ 9:30 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish at St. Patrick Church Lodi • 521 Fair St, Lodi, WI 53555
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Mass of Christian Burial
Tue Sep 9, 2025 @ 11:00 AM - 11:45 AM CDT
St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish at St. Patrick Church Lodi • 521 Fair St, Lodi, WI 53555
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Graveside Service
Tue Sep 9, 2025 @ 12:15 PM - 12:30 PM CDT
Garden Bluff Cemetery • Highway J, Lodi, WI 53555
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Luncheon After Burial
Tue Sep 9, 2025 @ 12:30 PM - 3:00 PM CDT
Fish Tales Restaurant • W12690 State Rd 188, Lodi, WI 53555
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A Memorial Tree was planted for Keith S. McNeese
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ Gunderson Funeral Home - Lodi
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Lila Jarnagin
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There are to many memories to share here. Keith and his siblings were my favorite cousins growing up. We shared so many moments and I will always treasure each and every one!! He was one in a million and I will miss so many things about him. His laugh is just one of those. Rest easy my sweet cuz!! Till I see you again!!😢
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Marvin and Joyce Berman
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Keith was such a wonderful person... so kind and gentle. Our deepest sympathies to Vicki, Kyle, Wesley and Jordan My birthday is October 12, as well.,,,,,30 years apart. Love Uncle Marv (and Aunt Joyce)
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Richmond kwawu
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Keith’s warmth and genuine care made a lasting impact on me. I felt he cared about me and my daughter and gave me lots of room to take off from work early to pick her up from school. He enjoyed my Friday donuts even when we all know it was bad for us all. Though we mourn you , we celebrate your life and the love you shared. Keith, you will be deeply missed and never forgotten.
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Mark
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I worked for Keith from 2015-2020. He was an amazing person to work with. He, same as myself, have an oldest child followed by twins. His kids were in college when I started with him: mine were 4 and my twins 1yo! He gave me some great advice, "It gets better after 2yo." Years later I asked him about that as it does not get better with twins as they grow older. Its like having a sleepover every night! Confronted with this he admitted, "I lied. I needed something to encourage you..." I laugh to this day thinking about that.
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Julie Brudnicki
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Keith was a co-worker of mine at Amfam. He was my manager at a time when my family was going through a medical crisis with my daughter. Keith offered us tremendous support during that difficult time and we will never forget his kindness. The world has lost one of the BEST….may he now Rest in Peace. Julie Brudnicki and Family

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