Norma Heeren

Norma Heeren

July 22, 1937 - December 14, 2024

Obituary

MADISON - Norma Heeren died on December 14, 2024, at home in Moscow, Idaho. She was born in Beatrice, Neb., on July 22, 1937, to Herman and Tena Parde. Norma and her brothers, Loren, Clarence, Raymond, Merl and Conrad, did much of the work on a 560-acre farm, caring for the chickens and milking a dozen cows by hand, twice a day. Norma was confirmed on April 13, 1952, in Filley, Neb., and her Lutheran religion was a source of strength and hope for her throughout a life with more than its share of hard times. Norma taught herself to play piano and helped raise her younger brothers with love and compassion.


Norma attended Crab Orchard Elementary and graduated in 1955 from Lewiston Conservatory High School. She worked from 1956-1957 for a dentist in Beatrice, saving money to pay her own way through Dana College in Blair, Neb. At Dana, she worked various jobs, was the May Queen, participated in student government, and sang in the College Choir. She graduated in 1961 with a bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education.


After college, Norma taught from 1961 to 1966 in the Wichita Public Schools. In 1966, she moved to Denver and taught in Jefferson County. She was a well-loved teacher, and not just for her teaching; the principal remarked in one glowing evaluation that she also “has a beautiful singing voice.” Maybe this love for music is part of what led a friend to introduce Norma to Donald Heeren, the tuba player for the Denver (now Colorado) Symphony orchestra. The two were married on December 30, 1970, in Our Savior’s Lutheran Church in Denver.


In 1973, Don surprised Norma when he told her he wanted to resign from the Denver Symphony to pursue photography. Norma followed Don to New York City, where he enrolled in a photography school. Norma gave birth there to her son, Geoffrey, in 1974.


Don graduated that year and the three moved to Loveland, Colo., where Don opened a photography studio. Three years later they moved to Madison, Wis., to be closer to Don’s father. Norma helped Don reopen his photography studio in Madison but when he took a job teaching photography at the Madison Area Technical College, Norma returned to teaching as well. In 1989, she earned a master’s degree in education from the University of Wisconsin, and that year she took a job teaching Third Grade at Emerson Elementary School in Madison. She was a passionate teacher who loved her students and colleagues and was well-loved by them. She officially retired in 1997 but returned to teaching for several years in the early 2000s.


In her retirement, Norma volunteered as a Master Gardener and at Olbrich Gardens in Madison and traveled the world with Don until he passed away in 2014. After that, she moved to Chicago to be closer to Geoffrey and eventually moved to Moscow, Idaho, when Geoffrey took a job teaching at the University of Idaho. She loved her family, especially her grandchildren, and enjoyed annual reunions with her college friends and family. She is survived by her brothers, Raymond, Merl and Conrad; her son, Geoffrey and his spouse, Saba; and her grandchildren, Mira and Ismael.


A funeral service will be held at BETHEL LUTHERAN CHURCH, 312 Wisconsin Ave., Madison, at 11 a.m. on Saturday, December 21, 2024, with Pastor Lauren Wrightsman presiding. Burial will be held at Forest Hill Cemetery. Visitation will be held at the church from 9:30 a.m. until the time of the service on Saturday.


In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Norma’s name to Bethel Horizons at Bethel Lutheran Church or to Sheridan Lutheran Church in Lincoln, Neb. - the “Tena Parde Fund.” Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


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Visitation
Sat Dec 21, 2024 @ 9:30 AM - 10:45 AM CDT
Bethel Lutheran Church • 312 Wisconsin Ave, Madison, WI 53703
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Funeral Service
Sat Dec 21, 2024 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
Bethel Lutheran Church • 312 Wisconsin Ave, Madison, WI 53703
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Ann
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Norma was a quiet strength and was greatly admired by us as we chaired the “Out and About” Confirmation excursions at Bethel Lutheran in the late 1980’s. We hold many warm memories of her devotion to the kids and to her faith. May memories be many and be celebrated! God bless the family!
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Ann
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Please know we will keep you and your family in our prayers and hearts. Ann and Phil Dettwiler
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Bonnie Kulke
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I got to know Norma during her and Don's time at Bethel Lutheran. Norma and I were both members of Bethel Bookwomen and enjoyed sharing great discussions on all kinds of books! Her intelligent wit and well read knowledge added so much to our group. She always had a twinkle in her eye and saw humor in many things. Norma delighted in her son Geoffrey and Don's extraordinary eye for photography. It was a joy to know her if for only a short while.
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Bill Reinke
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Outside of church, we saw Norma and Don on camera club outings around Madison, Chicago, and Montello. They were easy to be with and we are proud to have had them for our friends.

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