Gretchen M Parker

Gretchen M Parker

May 12, 1957 - August 17, 2023

Obituary

MONONA - Gretchen Marie (Aasen) Parker passed away on Thursday, Aug. 17, 2023, after a very recent diagnosis of cancer. Gretchen was a 1975 graduate of Viroqua High School and a 1980 graduate of the University of Wisconsin- Oshkosh. For many years of her career, she job-coached developmentally disabled adults. Gretchen also worked in customer service at Bank One and for several childcare organizations. Her last position was transporting disabled children for Badger Bus.


Gretchen loved to shop, especially at farmer’s markets, craft, and art fairs with Steve happily by her side. She was an avid Wisconsin sports fan - Packers, Badgers, and Brewers! She loved their annual vacation in the Northwoods.


Gretchen is survived by her partner, Steve Matula of Madison, Wis.; brother, Gary (Patti) Aasen of Atlanta, Ga.; special uncle, Orris Pederson; cousin, Patty (Dwain) Stone; two nieces, Lindsey (Thomas) Rawley and Carly (James) Buchanan; and six great-nieces and nephews; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.  She also leaves behind many dear long-time friends, Julie Farmer, Dawn Lavin, Jan Schmelzer and Sandi Russell; and the Cottage Grove Road VFW gang and many friends at Snicks, Woody & Anne’s and Tully’s II. She was preceded in death by her parents, Don and Marilyn; her beloved aunt, Garnet Pederson; and many other aunts and uncles.


A memorial service will be held at GUNDERSON EAST FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, at 3 p.m. on Saturday, Sept. 9, 2023. Visitation will be held at the funeral home from 1 p.m. until the time of the brief service on Saturday. A celebration of life at the VFW Post on Cottage Grove Road is being planned.


Special thanks to the nursing staff at SSM St. Mary’s 7th floor for their kind and gentle care of Gretchen in her last hours. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson East
Funeral & Cremation Care
5203 Monona Drive
(608) 221-5420

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Sat Sep 9, 2023 @ 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM CDT
Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
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Memorial Service
Sat Sep 9, 2023 @ 3:00 PM - 3:30 PM CDT
Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
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Laura DeMoss
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I’m so sorry to learn of the passing of Gretchen, and want to convey my sincere condolences. My sister Kathy & I used to babysit for Gretchen and Gary when they were little, and I have very fond memories of her. So very sad for your loss, Laura Hill DeMoss
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Jo FAILING
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Steve - you and Gretchen were a prime example of "what one didn't think of, the other did." We at the "V" would be in stitches with laughter. RIP, Gretchen. Jo Failing
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Kerry McAllen
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Gretchen was a sweet woman and she'll be missed. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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Jasmine Bradley-Wilson
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I worked with Gretchen in childcare a couple years ago and she was always so sweet and funny. She absolutely LOVED talking about Steve. Praying for all her family, friends and loved ones. Jasmine
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Jack Schroeder
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Gretchen was much loved by her neighbors in Monona. She was always cordial and kindly in her manner, and she is already deeply missed. May she rest in peace.
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Brian Schmidt
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It was always great to see Gretchen when she came to the Monona Farmers Market with Steve. Enjoyable but too short conversations and funny experiences where shared. She was always friendly, with an upbeat and positive attitude; happily living out her life. She will be missed, but not forgotten. Thanks for being a part of my life’s experiences Gretchen.

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