James Matthew Skibo

James Matthew Skibo

January 07, 1960 - April 14, 2023

Obituary

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While attending Forest Park High School, he met Becky Gamble, the love of his life. After graduating in 1978, Jim and Becky went to Northern Michigan University where he received his bachelors. On Dec. 27, 1981, Jim and Becky married. They then moved to Tucson, Ariz., where Jim pursued his masters and doctorate at the University of Arizona. While in Tucson, Jim and Becky welcomed their son, Matthew William Skibo.


After receiving his doctorate in 1990, Jim was offered a job at Illinois State University. He began his work there in the fall of 1992 and soon after, they completed their family with the addition of their daughter, Sadie Skibo. Jim worked at Illinois State for over 20 years and became the chair of his department. In 2012, he was honored as the Distinguished Professor in celebration of his scholarship and many years of service. Jim retired from Illinois State University in 2018 and he and Becky moved to White Lake, Wis. In 2021, Jim and Becky moved to Madison to be closer to their children and Jim came out of retirement to join the Wisconsin Historical Society as the State Archaeologist.


James was preceded in death by his father, Mathew L. Skibo.  He is survived by his wife, Becky Gamble Skibo; children, Matthew William Skibo and Sadie Skibo; mother, Rose Mae Skibo; and sisters, Mary Fran Bjork and Karen Ventura.


Those are the facts but they don’t come close to describing who Jim was to so many. He was warm, inviting, and could be incredibly goofy. Regardless of the occasion, he would begin his presentations with a joke. In his spare time, he loved to complete wood-working projects, enjoy a latte, and join whatever activity his family members were involved in. He was happiest when on an adventure, surrounded by people who loved him.


Jim loved his job and would say frequently that he had never worked a day in his life. Mentors and colleagues became life-long friends.


Our family has been overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and support we’ve received during this difficult time. In lieu of flowers or other gifts, please offer a gift of love in action. When you wish you could grab coffee with him, buy a cup of coffee for someone in need. When you cite his work, send words of encouragement to a colleague. When you witness ignorance and intolerance, show up with curiosity and compassion.


A memorial service will be held at GOOD SHEPHERD LUTHERAN CHURCH, 5701 Raymond Road, Madison, at 10 a.m. on Saturday, April 22, 2023. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson East

Funeral & Cremation Care

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Jen Maier
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I am so sorry for this tragic loss. Please know I will be praying for your family. You have my sympathy and I am sending hugs and love...
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Nancy Lind
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Jim was my colleague, a neighbor and a friend. He helped everyone that he could and I am blessed to have known him for over 20 years.
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Evan and Lisa Brown
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Our deepest condolences on this tragic loss. Jim was a phenomenal professor, a man of great talent, and unending compassion. Our thoughts are with you during this extremely difficult time. Our shock is only suspended by tears of sorrow. Evan and Lisa Brown, former students of Dr. Skibo.
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Joan Brehm
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Jim was first a colleague, but very quickly became a mentor, role mode, and above all else, a friend. I simply would not be where I am today without his support, encouragement, and friendship. When I became department chair and moved into his old office, I spent the week finding small post-it notes with 'words of wisdom' from Jim, peppered with his infectious sense of humor and encouragement. I saved every one of those post-it notes and on bad days, they would make me smile and laugh when I needed it most. I treasure every one of those notes and the priceless gift of his friendship. We also shared a love of our dogs - especially our Golden Retrievers. :). I am a better person for having the gift of knowing Jim. Sending you all peace and comfort at this difficult time. Joan Brehm
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Susan Kalter
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When I heard yesterday about Jim's death, all I could think about was his big broad ready smile and his big broad ready laugh, that turned out on further review--of his numerous YouTubes--often to be a chuckle, an accompaniment sometimes, a refrain others, a bridge still other times. I wrote about this smile and this laugh to a friend who never knew him. That he was that, and he was also kind and the kid in him was always breaking out over the surface of his face. Seeing him discuss his most recent work with his colleagues, about an amazing discovery that is a game changer, as people have said, in the study of the ancient Americas, makes me so proud and humbled to have known him. Seeing him discuss his careful skepticism, giving tribute to all others, reaching out to tribal authorities, working to bring archaeology to the people, to the public, makes us all realize how far we have to reach to demonstrate the natural intellectualism that was a skin he seems to have been born in. He died while pursuing his innate love of life, his enthusiasm for the all-in physical exertion that was the best of his profession. The English department was lucky to have him as our interim chairperson. Illinois State University was lucky to have him as a leader not only in my own field of Native American Studies, but in so many other distinguished roles. I got used to living in a world where I knew Jim was out there distributing his smarts and his fun to all. I do not want to get used to living in that other world, but for his sake, we will all try. I know that he would be egging us on to find all that Lake Mendota has to tell and to find in our own work that effortlessness that makes it feel like play. May the ancient spirits of the lake welcome you and treat you kindly, Jim, as you have always treated others. And may your life to come be the heaven you deserve.
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Natalie Grewe
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Skibo was my thesis mentor for archaeology at Illinois State in 2016. I was so lucky to have crossed paths with him and will never forget all of his valuable lessons. He was a great archaeologist and an even better person.

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