Betty J Mennenga

Betty J Mennenga

November 24, 1944 - March 31, 2023

Obituary

OREGON - Betty J. Mennenga, age 78, of Oregon, Wis., passed away from cancer on Friday, March 31, 2023. She was born on Nov. 24, 1944, to Harold and Mirla Miller in Davis, Ill.


With her former husband, George Suess, she had three daughters. Her family expanded when she married Marshall Mennenga and became stepmom to two boys.


A farm girl in her youth, Betty ultimately chose the path of entrepreneur and with her husband, Marshall, built a successful tax and financial planning business in Madison, Wis. Together, Betty and Marshall celebrated their success by traveling the world and visiting 35 countries. Betty's favorite were her two trips to China. Later in their travel career, they treated their kids and grandkids to a European vacation, sharing their love of travel and seeing new places.


Betty and Marshall loved playing euchre and 500 with friends and family and made sure to have regular games lined up, evening during tax season. It was a great way to relax with friends.


Betty absolutely loved her ten grandchildren, no matter how or when they arrived in her life. They are a fun and interesting group and she treasured hearing about, and being a part of their lives.


One prevailing element of Betty's entire life was music. From playing French horn in high school, forming and leading a choir of her daughters and neighbor kids all the while they were growing up, playing music in church every Sunday, participating in handbell choir, to playing keyboard for the praise band, she instilled in her children and grandchildren a love of making music that continues today.

Aside from making music in church, Betty enjoyed her roles in church leadership over the years. She was an integral part of the success and growth of People's United Methodist Church.


Betty was the strongest woman we knew. She would tell you, "I just did what I needed to do."


Gone before Betty are her parents, Mirla and Harold Miller. She leaves a living legacy to her husband, Marshall Mennenga; children, Tony (Joanna) Mennenga, Angela (Les) Williams, Sherri (Doug) Liedberg, Lloyd (Kate) Mennenga and Tricia (Jason) Suess Charleston; grandchildren, Rachel (Mitch) Haveman, Noah Mennenga, Rebekah Mennenga, Jacob Willliams, Andrea Liedberg, Adam Mennenga, Jason Mennenga, Cassidy Charleston, Seth Charleston and Alex Charleston; sisters, Judy (Bill) Brady and Diane (Mike) Griffith; and brother, Dennis (Peggy) Miller.


A funeral service will be held at PEOPLE’S UNITED METHODIST CHURCH, 103 N. Alpine Parkway, Oregon, at 11 a.m. on Saturday, April 8, 2023. A visitation will be held at MESSIAH LUTHERAN CHURCH, 5202 Cottage Grove Road, Madison, from 4:30 p.m. until 7:30 p.m. on Friday, April 7, 2023, and also at People’s United Methodist Church from 10 a.m. until the time of the service on Saturday.


In lieu of flowers, memorials may be gifted in Betty’s name to the People's United Methodist Church Music Program. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Events

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Visitation
Fri Apr 7, 2023 @ 4:30 PM - 7:30 PM CDT
Messiah Lutheran Church • 5202 Cottage Grove Rd, Madison, WI 53716
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Visitation
Sat Apr 8, 2023 @ 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
People's United Methodist Church • 103 North Alpine Prkwy, Oregon, WI 53575
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Memorial Service
Sat Apr 8, 2023 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
People's United Methodist Church • 103 North Alpine Prkwy, Oregon, WI 53575
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Lori Hubbard
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Dear Marshall, We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and praying for you. Carl & Lori & Lena Hubbard
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Andrea Liedberg
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She was a pretty big part of my life-- came with my parents to bring me back from china when I was less than a year old and then returned to china with me years later to see my birth home-- also took us on a Europe trip and could be found playing Sudoku every night. 10/10 will miss.
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Chrispy
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She was the very best person that I truly miss that helped me in life and fixed good meals. I will miss all the best times we had. I will look up in the sky and think of her. She is in a great place now, watching over on us.
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Sue Wiemer
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My sincere condolences to all of you! What an incredible person in business and with her family. She did our taxes for years and I just don’t know what we would of done without her. I wish you all peace knowing what wonderful memories you made with her.
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Beth Cox
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Marshall, Mike and I were saddened to learn of Betty’s death and we send our condolences. Betty was a beautiful woman and our lives were enriched by having known her. You and your family are in our thoughts. Beth and Mike Cox
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Lori Wandschneider
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Marshall, I remember when you and Betty first married. You were so happy that you had found your partner in life. She fit in with your family and you were so proud of all of her accomplishments. A love like that doesn't come often in life, but you were able to experience it. God truly blessed you with Betty. Cherish those memories and remember you will meet again. Sending my love, thoughts and prayers to all of you. Lori Wandschneider

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