Iris C. Brunner

Iris C. Brunner

November 09, 1930 - January 08, 2023

Obituary

CROSS PLAINS - Iris C. Brunner, age 92, of Cross Plains, died on Sunday, Jan. 8, 2023, after a very brief illness, surrounded by her loving family. She was born on Nov. 9, 1930, in Blue River, Wis. She was the daughter of Harley and Alma (McKinney) Couey. She graduated from Blue River High School in 1948 and set off for the big city of Madison. On March 27, 1951, she married her love, Gerald Brunner, from Cross Plains.  Together they chose to make their home in Cross Plains where they owned Brunner’s Store, whose motto was ‘Pleasing you, Pleases us.’ Those words were how she lived her life even after they sold the store in 1976.  


In addition to helping run the store, Mom was busy raising eight children.  When the kids were older, Mom worked several jobs including Lands’ End for all 17 years they had a call center in Cross Plains, retiring only when they closed in 2005.


Dad preceded her in death on Feb. 3, 1999, sharing nearly 48 loving years together.  Her heart was broken but she continued living a life filled with family, friends and travel.  Almost 24 years later, we are sure Dad was waiting for her with an open arm.


Mom was an amazing spouse, mother and friend whose home was welcoming to all.  She was an avid cheerleader and loved attending her kids and grandkids’ games and activities, going to Cross Plains Home Talent Baseball games and in her later years watching the Packers, Badgers and Brewers.  


In addition to nurturing and caring for her kids and their families, she also gave back to her community. She was an active member of St. Francis Xavier Church including Christian Mothers and the Council of Catholic Women. She was a member of St. Francis Choir for 50 years. She also volunteered for many local organizations including The Golden Agers, The Silvertones, driving for RSVP and making Cancer Caps.


Anyone that knew Mom knows that she was an avid and competitive card player.  She played in many card groups and was always up for a game of 500, Euchre, Solo and many other games. Even during Covid, she continued to play cards online and helped her younger friends figure out the technology so they could all play together.   Her final euchre hand, the day before she passed, was a lone hand that she laid down with a knowing grin.


Her memory and legacy is carried on by eight children, Tim (Sally), Chery (Carl) Theis, Jeff, Deb (Stan) Gudel, Kevin (Kristal Gerbick), Mary (Chuck) Roessler, Doug (Paula) and Julie (Mike) Baldwin; grandchildren, Emily, Max, Theo, Lydia, Chris, Carter, Dana, Sara, Maggie, Tony, Abbie, Jessica, Jonah, Sienna and Ari; 13 great-grandchildren; brother and sister, Bernie Couey and Rosemary Jewell; in-laws, Joyce Couey, Bob Brunner, Corrine (Pat) Crowley, Kay (Mike) Crowley and Bev Brunner; and many nieces and nephews.  She was preceded in death by Dad; her parents; infant son, Robert Jacob; daughter-in-law, Jenn Brunner; brothers, Benny, Gene (Eathel) and Armin; and in-laws, Carol Couey, Roger Jewell, and Babe and Gordie Brunner.  


A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at ST. FRANCIS CATHOLIC CHURCH, 2947 Thinnes St., Cross Plains, at 11 a.m. on Monday Jan. 16, 2023, with Father Scott Jablonski. Friends and family who wish to view the service via LIVE STREAM may do so by visiting Iris's obituary page at www.gundersonfh.com and clicking on the Watch Webcast at the time of the Mass. Burial will be held at St. Francis Catholic Cemetery. Visitation will be held at the church from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. on Sunday, Jan. 15, 2023, and also from 9:30 a.m. until the time of the Mass on Monday.
 

Our family would like to thank the staff at Meriter Hospital, especially the amazing nurses for their compassionate and loving care of Mom and us.


In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Cross Plains Baseball, Northwest Dane Senior Services or a charity of your choice. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson Cross Plains

Funeral & Cremation Care

2421 Church St.

(608) 798- 3141


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Chery Brunner Theis
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Mom, I will forever miss our nightly talks, our Tuesday morning playtime, our Friday night card games and all our adventures. Thank you for teaching me how to be a Mom, a Grandma, a Sister, a Wife and a Friend. I will always remember how you and Dad supported all your communities and try to follow your example! I will love and remember you forever!
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Jane Wyngaard
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My condolences to your family ~ you're in my thoughts. I know that your mom was very proud of all of you. How wonderful for you that she was in your lives for so long. I believe she will continue to be in your life. Respectfully, Jane Wyngaard
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Ann & Glenn Johnston
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Our sympathy to all the Brunner family, your mom and dad did a great job raising a big family. Love and prayers!
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Mary Roessler
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Feeling incredibly blessed to have you as a mom! You gave me a loving and wonderful childhood and even stuck by me through my late teens/early twenties phase when I was probably hard to love. But you did. I love you and will miss you. Until we meet again. Mary
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Dick Cashwell
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Marilyn and I knew Iris through singing with the Silvertones. She and Marilyn stood together as both were altos. I hope the family is comforted by knowing of the large number of people who considered her a friend.
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Lisa Schroeder
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My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Brunner family. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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