Robert Courtney Hillner

Robert Courtney Hillner

February 24, 1939 - December 02, 2022

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Bob and Kay's Time of Remembrance will begin at 1 p.m CT on Saturday, Feb. 4, 2023 and Graveside Service will begin at 3:30 p.m CT on Saturday, Feb. 4, 2023.

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MADISON - Robert Courtney “Bob” Hillner died peacefully at home in Fitchburg, Wis. on Friday, Dec. 2, 2022, after years of living with multiple myeloma. Bob was born in Albany, N.Y., on Feb. 24, 1939, to Ralph and Helen (Geritz) Hillner. The family soon moved to Rockford, Ill., and then to Madison, Wis., where Bob grew up.


As a child, Bob enjoyed fishing and swimming in the Madison lakes, and playing basketball, baseball and hockey with neighborhood friends. At Madison West Senior High he played on the varsity basketball and hockey teams. In his junior year at West, Bob started dating his future wife, fellow classmate Karen “Kay” Johnson. Right after high school Bob spent two years in the U.S. Navy, where he learned what life was like on the aircraft carrier USS Saratoga. When he came home from the Navy, Bob started school at UW-Madison and earned a degree in finance. In 1964, Bob and Kay were married at First Methodist Church in Madison, Wis. A few years later, Bob took a management position at the Wisconsin State Department of Justice, where he worked for the next 29 years, until his retirement.


In his 50s, Bob decided to try his hand at wood carving and began making animals and whimsical human figures. He had been working with wood for years before this, though. One of the first things Bob did when he and Kay moved into their new house was to build custom shelving for all the closets. The second thing he built was a floor-to-ceiling bookcase for their daughter’s room. When he planned a project he sometimes used designs he found in magazines; but also drafted his own, often just sketching something out by hand and jotting down some measurements. Over the years his daughter learned to say, “You know what I could really use…?” and Bob would figure out a way to make it. In his retirement, Bob would sometimes show up at his daughter’s house with a newly-finished furniture project in hand, saying, “I just wanted to try this. I thought you could put it in your living room.” These all became well-used and much-loved pieces.


Bob liked to contribute his time and talents to his community. In the 1970s he served on the Town of Fitchburg Utility Commission. He enjoyed his years volunteering for Habitat for Humanity as a member of the crew that picked up items donated to the Restore. For two decades, right up until the week of his death, he was a loyal supporter of the Fitchburg Senior Center. He served terms as President and Treasurer for the Fitchburg Senior Center Friends and helped in many other capacities. Bob and two friends even found a way to put their woodworking skills to use building bookshelves for the Senior Center library, built-in benches for the main hallway, and several planters to beautify the outside of the building.


In his no-fuss way, Bob quietly took care of the people he loved and looked for ways to extend that care to people he hadn’t met. But when he wasn’t building something, planning for a meeting, helping people, or giving investment advice, his favorite place to be was at his house. From his chair in a corner of the screened porch, he could look out at the well-kept back yard and enjoy a cup of coffee and a good spy novel or Western. Usually, Kay was sitting in her chair nearby, and they were there together, at home.


Robert was survived by his beloved wife, Karen Hillner, until Karen’s death on Jan. 4, 2023; and by their daughter, Patricia Hillner, of Fitchburg, Wis. Robert was preceded in death by his parents, Ralph and Helen Hillner; his brother, Carl Hillner; his sister-in-law, Linda Watson; a niece, Laurie (Bill) Cadorette; and two nephews, Daniel Johnson and Jeffrey (Becky) Johnson. He is further survived by Suzanne (Bill) Vlasek, niece, of Oregon, Wis.; Stephen (Jessica) Johnson, nephew, of Huntsville, Ala.; Christopher (Christy) Johnson, nephew, of Huntsville, Ala.; Randall (Lauren) Johnson, nephew, of Huntsville, Ala.; great-nieces and nephews; dear cousins; and treasured friends.


A joint Celebration of Life for Bob and Kay will be held on Saturday, Feb. 4, 2023, from 1 p.m. until 3 p.m. at GUNDERSON FITCHBURG FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 2950 Chapel Valley Road, Fitchburg. A brief time of remembrance will begin at 1 p.m., followed by refreshments and time to share stories and memories. Inurnment will take place at Oak Hall Cemetery in Fitchburg immediately following the Celebration


Bob said that instead of sending flowers he hoped everyone would go give someone a hug. He also would have appreciated knowing donations were made to the Alzheimer’s and Dementia Alliance of Wisconsin, the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation, or PBS Wisconsin. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.


Gunderson Fitchburg

Funeral & Cremation Care

2950 Chapel Valley Road

(608) 442-5002

 




Events

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Memorial Service
Sat Feb 4, 2023 @ 1:00 PM - 2:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Fitchburg Funeral & Cremation Care • 2950 Chapel Valley Road, Fitchburg, WI 53711
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Graveside Service
Sat Feb 4, 2023 @ 3:30 PM - 4:30 PM CDT
Oak Hall Cemetery (Fitchburg) • Hwy M, Fitchburg, WI null
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Sheri Mauerman
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I volunteered with Bob at Habitat for Humanity's Restore for several years. He was a true gentleman & had an excellent work ethic. Bob always had a smile & a pleasant word. He will be missed.
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Ed and Julie Murphy
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Bob was our next door neighbor for the past nearly 45 years. We can’t imagine a better neighbor. He was always very helpful with advice on maintaining a home, which comes in very handy for first time homeowners. He would also offer the use of his tools when he noticed something with our house that might need repair. In recent years when he needed help with something we were able to return some of the many favors and kindnesses he had done for us over the years. Bob selflessly provided home care for his wife Kay for years up until just a few months before his death. He also volunteered generous amounts of time to serving his community. He had a life well lived, and provided a wonderful example to his fellow neighbors and coworkers to aspire to. We will miss him very much and will always remember him very fondly. Ed and Julie Murphy
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Gunderson Funeral Home
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Eddie Marion
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I worked with Bob for many years at the DOJ. My best and most enduring of memories is of Bob's patience with somewhat difficult attorneys under stressful situations. By attorneys, I mean me. Bob was dedicated to doing the right thing, in the right way. So many in like jobs just "call it in." RIP, Bob. And, thanks.
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Richard Mount
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I feel so sad at Bob and Kay's passing. He was my last cousin. We hadn't talked to each other for a number of years, but he found me in Arizonia a few years ago and we had a number of conversations recalling times past. My heart and prayers go to Trish and the family and friends. Cousin Richard Mount

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