Vicki Lynn Schoate

With love and hugs,

My condolences.

I got to know Vicki because she was my boyfriend's mom. I couldn't walk past her to visit him without polite chatting. I connected to her because we both have "V" names. As we talked more over 2 years, I realized what a compassionate, gentle, and strong woman she was. I saw her influence in Elmo and how much he loves and respects her. I enjoyed talking to her so much that I started looking forward to it and bringing her little treats. A baggie full of Halloween candy or a candy bar. Once I stopped at the liquor store and forgot to buy her a candy bar until I parked in front of the house. I ran back out to the gas station just because I knew she was touched to get these little gifts. She was a lovely woman, a kind heart, ahead of her time. I do believe she is still looking out for her children though. She pulled me back into Elmo's life from beyond the grave precisely when he needed help. I can't explain it, but I know she knew that I loved him and would help him. I hope each of Vicki's children feel her love and protection still surrounding them in their grief. Each of us was blessed to have known her.