
Richard Allen Aide
January 21, 1943 - April 08, 2021
Obituary
MADISON - Richard A. Aide, age 78, passed away after a very brief yet courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. He left us with his family by his side on Thursday, April 8, 2021.
Richard was born on Jan. 21, 1943, in Madison, Wis., the son of Lavern and Margaret Aide. Richard was self-employed and ran Aides Trophies for 45 years. He loved his work but mostly loved the very loyal customers, that he called friends that he dealt with along the way. Richard enjoyed going to HO-Chunk casino in his spare time. He loved to play blackjack and almost considered himself an expert at the game. But his family believed that he went for the social gathering.
Richard bowled for several years and in several leagues at Bowl-A-Vard and Dream Lanes. Richard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and his great-grandchild. He was always up for a new adventure. Richard was never short on advice or trying to make sure that all his family was taken care of. Richard was extremely outgoing, friendly, caring and loving and as one of his closest friends told me, “There will only ever be one Richard Aide” and this is genuinely believed by all who knew him.
Richard is survived by his children, Randy A. (Joyce) Aide of Edgerton, Wis. and Robin A. Schultz of Stoughton, Wis.; four grandchildren, Stephanie M. Aide of Portage; Kayla M. (Dan) Johnson of Edgerton, Jenna M. Buckingham of Stoughton and Jacob J. Schultz of Stoughton; one great-grandchild, Benjamin E. Johnson; adopted granddaughter, Kassidy Aide of Edgerton; step-granddaughter, Simone Martin of Edgerton; uncle, Russell Johnson of Arena; four sisters-in-law, Elaine (Ken) Nelson of Sun Prairie, Carolyn (Al) Kent of Highland, Jane Kroll of Highland and Linda Damon of Waunakee; four brothers-in-law, Merle (Butch) Damon of Madison, David (Linda) Eggers of Beaver Dam, Jim (Delores) Eggers of Highland and Dennis Kosharek of Highland; and several nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
Richard was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Arlene Aide of Madison, Wis.; his father, Lavern Aide of Madison; his mother, Margaret Ellefson of Arena; his stepfather, Edwin Ellefson of Arena; his grandfather, Alfred Amacher and grandmother, Edna Amacher of Arena; several aunts and uncles; brother-in-law, William (Bill) Damon of Waunakee, sisters-in-law, Bev Damon of Madison and Donna Kosharek of Highland; a nephew, Bobby Damon of Beaver Dam; and a niece, Julie Lawyer of Baraboo.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at ST. BERNARD CATHOLIC CHURCH, 2450 Atwood Avenue, Madison, at 11 a.m. on Wednesday, April 14, 2021, with Father Michael Radowicz presiding. Burial will immediately follow at Roselawn Memorial Park Mausoleum. Visitation will be held at GUNDERSON EAST FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. on Tuesday, April 13, 2021, and at the church from 10 a.m. until the time of the Mass on Wednesday.
In lieu of flowers, memorials to the family would be greatly appreciated. The family would like to extend a special thank you to the staff at St. Mary’s Hospital of Madison and to the incredibly special caregivers at Agrace HospiceCare in Fitchburg. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson East
Funeral & Cremation Care
5203 Monona Drive
(608) 221-5420
Events
Visitation
Tue Apr 13, 2021 @ 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM CDT
Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
Visitation
Wed Apr 14, 2021 @ 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
St. Bernard Catholic Church (Madison) • 2450 Atwood Ave., Madison, WI 53704
Funeral Service
Wed Apr 14, 2021 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
St. Bernard Catholic Church (Madison) • 2450 Atwood Ave., Madison, WI 53704
Graveside Service
Wed Apr 14, 2021 @ 12:15 PM - 12:45 PM CDT
Roselawn Memorial Park • 401 Femrite Drive, Monona, WI 53716
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Pamela Hoffhein-Thomas
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R.I.P He is a great man .so sorry to all the family.I know stephanie will never forget her beloved grandpa.
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Rose Hoffhein
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Richard you had a way with words, caring for others, & giving good advice to thoese who needed it. Usually will be missed dearly. Rose Hoffhein
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Danny Buckingham
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Best advice I ever got from him was “if it needs to be done just do it and don’t worry about things that really don’t matter “ thank you Tricky
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Dorothy Grossman
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R. I. P Dick prayers to you family. You will be greatly missed by everyone
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Amanda Isaacs
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Reflecting on this man makes me smile. He always left me laughing. I will miss him.




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Wayne Strong
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As Co-Director for the Southside Raiders Youth Football and Cheerleading Program, I had the opportunity to work with Richard on many occasions. Richard was always kind, thoughtful and honest. He cared deeply about youth sports and we were always satisfied with the quality of service he provided for us. We will miss you, Richard. Rest in peace. God bless. Wayne Strong