Carol Ann Lindeen

Carol Ann Lindeen

April 01, 1939 - February 24, 2021

Obituary

MADISON - “Class” and “grace” are two words that best describe her. Carol (aka “Cal,” “Grammy Cal” and “Jamming Cal”) had a sharp mind and wit and she cared deeply for all whom she knew and all whom she loved. Our dear mother, Carol Rainey Lindeen, of Madison, died peacefully in her sleep on Wednesday, Feb. 24, 2021. Born April 1, 1939, in Troy, N.Y., she grew up in Canton, Ill., with her mother, Elizabeth Putman Rainey and sister, Christine Ellen Rainey. They spent their summers in Kennebunkport, Maine, Carol’s lifelong happy place. After graduating from Canton High School in 1957, Carol attended Bradley University. She married Lance Lindeen in 1960, living in Champaign, Ill., St. Louis, Mo., finally settling in Madison in 1969 with daughters, Laurie, Megan, and Hillary. In 1970, they welcomed son, Lance Christopher. As a family, they traveled regularly to Key Biscayne, Fla., and Martha’s Vineyard, as well as to the “chalet” in Bessemer, Mich. Cal’s fashion sense was unrivaled, and she worked many years at Jan Byce’s Boutique at Hilldale Mall. Her bridge parties and gourmet parties were legendary, and when not shuttling children to gymnastics, soccer, volleyball, and hockey, or leading Brownie, Girl Scout, and PTA meetings, Carol enjoyed Badgers hockey games, book clubs, and evenings on the town at the Wonder Bar, Smoky’s, and always Parthenon Gyros. Returning to Bradley University in her 40s to earn her master’s degree in Counseling, Carol discovered the joys of being a housemother in a sorority. In Madison, Carol became the housemother for the Alpha Epsilon Phi sorority on the UW campus for over twenty years. Her loves included her children and grandchildren, her cat, Sam, books, friends, politics, and Chardonnay. Her quiet intelligence, complexity, impeccable fashion sense, and loyal friendship will be missed by many. Carol was preceded in death by her mother, Elizabeth Putman; her sister, Christine Rainey; her aunt, Alice K. Rainey; and uncle, Dr. Harrison C. Putman. She is survived by her daughters, Laurie Lindeen (Jim Diem), Megan Lindeen (Peter Natzke) and Hillary Benson (Dirk); and son, Lance Christopher (Karen); niece, Brittaney Smith (Chris Kane); nephew, Kirk Smith (Robin); and grandchildren, Casey, Johnny, Jack, Ryan, Cassidy, Grace, Lila, and Scarlet; great-grandson, Caleb; and many adored Putman and Estwanik cousins. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to Ron Johnson’s opponent in 2022. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care 5203 Monona Drive (608) 221-5420

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I love Carol's politics, I agree totally May Carol's precious & beautiful soul rest in peace
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Schilling Judy
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My sincere condolensces to family and friends. I knew Carol in the early years in Canton, Il Prayers for Carol and peace for the family. Judy (Dearing) Schilling
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Barbara Matthews
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Carol was my very dear friend for over 50 years. We shared so many milestones in life together; from car pooling kids to nursery school to birth of grandchildren. I miss her calls during the evening while she watched MSNBC and I can still hear her saying, “Are you watching Rachel?” Life was not kind to us this last year when Covid restricted us from spending time together. I will miss my dear friend.
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Susan Cooper
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Deeply saddened to hear of Carol’s passing. She was one of our close group of friends in Hi School. The group included her, Janet Guard, Janice Nagel, Nancy Mason, Diana Feldner, and Susan Orendorff. Only Diana and Susan are still living. So many great memories growing up in the 50s. The best of times! Tell the family how sorry we are. Love, Susan (Orendorff) Cooper.
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Allison Coakley
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Dear Laurie, Megan, Hillary and Christopher: I'm so sorry for your loss. Carol was a wonderful, beautiful, smart, and funny friend with a great personal style and a lot of class. She and my mom were dear friends since they were children and she and I became close through working together at JB's. She always spoke glowingly of her children, grandchildren and extended group of family and friends. She was always going somewhere to see somebody. She will be dearly missed.
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Your VerHalen Family
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Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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