
Phyllis J Pierce
July 20, 1937 - November 20, 2020
Obituary
MONONA - Phyllis Jean Pierce, age 83, of Monona, passed away peacefully on Friday, Nov. 20, 2020, at her home surrounded by her family. She was born on July 20, 1937, in Rockford, IL, the daughter of Glenn Mosser and Mary (Stotler) Mosser.
Phyllis is survived by her husband, Laurance; three children, Laura (John ) Keenan, Kathy (John) Torrence, and John (Debra) Pierce; godson, Chidi (Chinyere) Obasi; sister-in-law, Doris Mosser; seven grandchildren, Kayla (Mike) Shreves, Ryen Keenan, Pierce, Abbey and Sarah Torrence, Allison and Megan Pierce; and god-grandchildren, Chimamaka, Amara and Nnamdi Obasi. She was preceded in death by her parents and her brother, Donald Mosser.
Known as "Tutu" (Hawaiian for grandmother) not only by her grandchildren, Phyllis had a large circle of extended family members and friends. Phyllis has left a legacy of family love, leadership, and the importance of positively impacting others' lives. She had a natural ability to quietly gather those around her, playing the teacher and grandmother role to all.
She attended Beloit College upon graduating from East High School in Rockford, IL. After taking a brief collegiate hiatus to raise her three children, Phyllis graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, majoring in Education in 1973. A huge Badgers fan, she would ultimately raise a family of six other alumni - even knitting red and white Badger sweaters for her grandchildren.
Phyllis taught at Sherman, Lapham, and Elvehjem elementary schools in the Madison School District for nine years. Administration, parents, and students alike knew they could rely on Phyllis to treat students in her classroom equally and with respect. She navigated classroom challenges with ease, including a 3rd/4th/5th-grade combination classroom and participating in the district's early attempts to bring special needs children into the classroom.
Her 'teaching' skills extended way beyond the classroom. When Phyllis and her husband had the opportunity to purchase Millie's Pancake House and Shopping Village in Delavan, she left the field of education to run the "one-acre-under-roof" enterprise. She used her coaching skills to manage a 70-person staff and run the day-to-day operations of this Geneva Lakes-area "one-of-a-kind-destination," including a large restaurant and high-end gift, dress, linen, quilting, and sausage shops.
After selling Millie's in 1983, she became president of Laurel Enterprises, a holding company of six different restaurants in Wisconsin and Illinois and a home-building enterprise. As such, she coached and managed 100's of employees for more than 20 years.
She leaves behind a large extended family, which was just a naturally occurring thing to her; as such, she touched several different communities. The most shining example of this was born out of Tutu's and Larry’s involvement in the '70s in the Madison Friends of International Students at the university. They hosted many international students through the years for dinners and holidays but developed a special relationship with the Nwankwo Kalu and Mgbore (Beatrice) Obasi family from Nigeria. Phyllis became godmother to Chidi Obasi, born in Madison while his parents attended the university. The Obasi's returned to Nigeria but remained in touch through the years. Ultimately, Chidi returned to Madison to live with the Pierce's while earning his Ph.D. in Public Health at UW. Chidi and the Pierces played a crucial role in changing the face of Christ Presbyterian Church, helping form its International Ministry, ultimately creating an avenue of faith for many university international students.
Beyond business and the church, Phyllis was actively involved in a wide variety of “communities” over the years. Friends and neighbors at Belvidere Park and Polynesian Shores Condominiums could always count on Tutu's open door for sourdough pancakes, Hawaiian dream cake and ribs, and cocktail hour and "pupus" at sunset. Combined, she served as a trustee on both associations’ boards for more than four decades. As a military wife, she was an active member of various Officer’s Wives Club and navigated multiple tours of duty separations with grace.
She worked tirelessly to support her children's interests, becoming president of the Madison Figure Skating Club and co-chairperson of the Midwest Rowing Championships, an annual collegiate regatta hosted by the UW Men's Rowing team. She was a deacon and elder and taught Sunday School at Christ Presbyterian Church in Madison; she also was a member of Phi Beta Kappa Honor Society.
Phyllis didn't just talk about loving others; she lived it. Her very essence was gathering family and friends together, often over food. She was a fantastic cook, inspiring two generations of cooks and authentic recipes in a family cookbook. She loved to travel, especially to Maui, and enjoyed gardening, sailing, fishing, water sports, and the art of knitting. It was essential to her that her children and grandchildren, especially, enjoy each other's company.
She was the maternal creator of "all things lake life," instilling the love of water in her children and grandchildren. Tutu was incredibly witty and funny. While she could sometimes be the quiet one at dinner, she would toss a hilarious comment back to the group.
She leaves a legacy of love, friends, and family and will be incredibly missed. But we are comforted to know that she is with her Lord and Savior.
A private graveside burial is planned, and a celebration of life will be held later.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Salvation Army of Wisconsin, Madison Friends of International Students or the ’Alzheimers & Dementia Alliance of Wisconsin. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
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Douglas Dischler
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Condolences to the entire Pierce family. Phyllis was Tutu to not just her own grandchildren, but to an entire extended family as well. I was brought into the family by proxy, with my sister marrying one of Tutu's children, John. Phyllis made sure everyone was welcome in her home, treating everyone who entered her home as family. Its difficult to imagine what an impact she had on so many lives. Respectful, full of grace, and endearing to all. While I'm sure she will be sorely missed by the Pierce family directly, she will be missed by her large extended family, myself included. God called one of his own home, since he needed her there. Her work here done, we take solace in the many memories she created for family and friends over the years. God Bless!
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Dawn Nelson
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For most kids, leaving school for summer vacation means that their parents are the main adults looking over them for the summer months. This was not true for kids like me that spent their summers at Belvidere Park at Lake Geneva during the 1960’s and 70’s. For us, our mom’s watched out for us, but so did our mom’s “pier group”. These were the mom’s that spent their days hanging out on the pier, enjoying the company of each other, but also watching out for each other’s kids and overseeing the goings-on around the park. I best remember Phyllis as just a sweetheart of a member of this group. Quiet and patient but smart and fun, she was an anchor of my time as a teenager growing up at the lake. I am so grateful that Phyllis was one of those great women who was there on that pier when I was growing up! During that time I learned a lot about the ice skating lives of Laura, Kathy and John. Skating was such a big part of their lives, and Larry and Phyllis were so committed to this! It was so much fun to watch these kids, who were younger than me, who had such commitment to and success in skating. It was a family affair, for sure! Next I remember the time of Millie’s Pancake House. I remember Phyllis, who was a teacher, basically re-inventing herself into a person who was leading this complex attraction of restaurant and shopping. During that time, we went there to eat often, and grew very fond of something that I think was called “smearecase and apple butter”. My family sold our house at the lake after I finished college and moved to Boston, so I did not see any of the Pierces for many years. Over the past several years I have made a few visits back to the lake, and I have been focused on each of those visits, to try to see Larry and Phyllis. On several visits, I did not succeed in arriving when they were there. But last fall, after letting them know in advance that I was coming, they came down and I got to see them. We had a lovely evening including Chinese take out for dinner. I am so very grateful that this happened! It was so nice to have the chance to talk with Phyllis about her memories of my mom, especially, and also of me and my brothers. I am so sorry to all of you for the loss of Phyllis; a truly lovely person! Dawn Nelson
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Donna Marks
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Dear Larry, My deepest condolences to you and your family. Phyllis was a lovely and remarkable lady. I will always hold close to my heart the memories of wonderful times we shared at Polynesian Shores in Maui. Aloha Donna Marks
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Erin A. Whattam
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Aloha Condolences Blessings Prayers from your West Maui Adopted Clans... Erin, Rose, Catherine Kaki, David & Others...
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Sandy Pelc
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So very sorry for your loss. Phyllis was such a beautiful and compassionate woman, and I will always have fond memories of her. Sandy Pelc
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Brandon Wright
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Our deepest condolences to the family for your loss. Tutu was such a warm and kind person and an inspiration to us. We greatly appreciate Chidi bringing us along to visit you all. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. -Brandon and Utibe Wright and family.