
Marlys Mittelstadt
September 21, 1931 - September 09, 2020
Obituary
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MONONA-Marlys L. Mittelstadt passed on to the other side peacefully on Wednesday, Sept. 9, 2020. She was 88 years old. She was born in Eau Claire, Wis. She was the daughter of Wallace L. and Mabel Rudd.
Marlys was an active child that took to music and excelled in all her studies at a very early age. Because there was no kindergarten in rural Eau Claire at the time, her Mother put her into the first grade at the age of five in a one room schoolhouse and bought books for her to study at home. Marlys played the piano with her Father who played the fiddle. They both played by ear at first. By the age of six, Marlys was playing the piano quite well and it was then that Grandma Rudd decided that she should take music lessons for 75 cents a lesson from Mrs. Thompson in her home in Eau Claire. Marlys caught on so quickly that she was asked to occasionally play for the choir at Olivet Methodist Church. Then they needed a substitute organist so Marlys volunteered and learned to play the organ. By the age of 13, Marlys was playing the organ at her church! Marlys played the flute in all bands during her formative years in grade school, high school, and college. They won many band contests. She graduated as Valedictorian from Eau Claire High School in 1948 at the age of 16. This is where she met the Love of her Life and Husband to be, Russell J. Mittelstadt. He was a dashing handsome young man! With many aspirations. Russell was the Salutatorian in the same graduating high school class.
Her first year of college was at North Central College in Naperville, Ill. Then she transferred to the University of Wisconsin in Madison her sophomore year, studying music. She studied more and more piano and more organ at the UW giving many recitals to get her degree. The Bandmaster at the UW liked Marlys so much because she could play the Star-Spangled Banner on the piano and flute in any key, at any time, upon request. She was that good! Marlys was also a mezzo soprano. She graduated from UW Madison Suma Cum Laude with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in in Music in 1952. She went on to obtain her Master’s Degree in Music in 1953. Then she married the handsome Russell J. Mittelstadt, who was a Lieutenant in the U.S. Army in 1953. They moved to Fort Lewis, Wash. Marlys played for Church Services and Officers Club gatherings at all of the Army bases where they were stationed.
After five years active duty out West and in Germany, Marlys and Russell returned to Madison in 1958 with young children. Marlys took the organist position at United Christian Brotherhood and then Central Lutheran in downtown Madison. Russell attended University of Wisconsin Law School and remained in the Army Reserves for the next 35 years retiring as a Colonel. Marlys became a member of ROAL (Reserve Offices Ladies) for Life.
They lived in Monona raising three children, Mary, Marcus, and Miles. Glorious childhood days back then! Always music in the house. Always Love.
Marlys moved with Central Lutheran Church to the East side where they took up temporary Church services in a house. They were looking for a new name and new Church building. Marlys submitted her new Church name into the suggestion box, to be named Messiah Lutheran. Which is what the Church is named today on Cottage Grove Rd. In 1961, Marlys was solicited by Pastor Ace Schumacher of St. John’s Lutheran Church “to come and play a beautiful new pipe organ!” So she did! She became the organist and choir director there at the age of 29. She oversaw the installation of the brand new 30 Rank Casavant Pipe Organ which translates into 1500 pipes, three keyboards, and one on the floor for foot pedaling. All limbs moving at once! She served as organist for St. John’s Lutheran Church for 50 years until 2011 when they forced her out. She never retired, she never resigned.
Marlys was a classical church musician who played all the Old Masters on her beloved Casavant pipe organ. She loved to practice and hone her ever evolving skills. She would not play “Here Comes the Bride” for weddings. We had season tickets to the Overture Organ Concert Series which she thoroughly enjoyed over the years. She played a concert for her 50th Anniversary at St. John’s before she left. She was a member of SAI Musical Fraternity since college and AGO for many years. Some of her favorite pieces are Bach’s Toccata & Fugue in D Minor, Widor’s “Toccata from Symphonie V”, “On the Wings of Eagles” (hymn) , “The River”, “Night & Day” by Cole Porter, “Rustle of Spring” by Sinding which I never saw her play with a score.
Marlys is preceded in death by her husband, Russell; and sons, Marcus and Miles. She is survived by her daughter, Mary K.; two grandsons, Kurt and Kraig; and many nieces, and nephews. These have been some hard years for Marlys. For us. Please Pray for my Beloved Mother. She is in Heaven with her Love, Russell and the Holy Father and Jesus Christ whom she loved so much with all her heart and all her soul, celebrating him forever with her beautiful music.
Psalm 118 Verse 24: “This is the day that the Lord hath made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it!” Psalm 100 “Make a joyful noise unto the Lord for he is good and his mercy endureth forever.” This is how my Mother said it.
A private funeral service will be held with the Rev. Mike Brown presiding. Burial will take place at Lakeview Cemetery in Eau Claire. A visitation will be held at BETHEL LUTHERAN CHURCH, 312 Wisconsin Ave., Madison from 1 p.m. until 3 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 17, 2020. Due to COVID-19 guidelines at this time, only 10 people are allowed into the church at one time. Social distancing and face masks are required.
Thank you to the SAI Ladies, Mom's best friend, Joyce, her Bible Study Group Ladies, 11th Floor at Meriter Hospital. Dr. Glinberg, Dr. Hardy, Dr. Boushea, Dr. Hinderaker, my Mom's lead nurse Lisa Larson RN CC, Home Instead, Oakwood Village Meadows staff and Kurt Schuhart, David Marx (nephew, pictures), neighbors, and friends. Please direct any letters or cards to Gunderson East Funeral and Cremation Care, 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.
Gunderson East
Funeral & Cremation Care
5203 Monona Drive
(608) 221-5420
Events
Visitation
Thu Sep 17, 2020 @ 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM CDT
Bethel Lutheran Church (Madison) • 312 Wisconsin Ave, Madison, WI
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Memories
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Shari Stephenson
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I have many wonderful memories of Marlys so it is hard to choose just one. But here is one. In 1976 St John's senior choir met in the summer of that year to prepare a song to celebrate the bicentennial. It was the summer before I started 9th grade. I went with my mom to this particular rehearsal and was planning on sitting in a Sunday school room while rehearsal was going on. The song being practised was God Bless America. As they were singing I was enthralled by it. I went to the choir room door to listen. My mom waved to me and Marlys looked around to see who was neing waved at. When she saw me she smiled and said Come in and join us in spite of the fact I was known as singing loud and off key . From that moment on I was hooked on Church choir. I learned so much from her.
DB
Denise E. Bové
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Mrs. Mittelstadt was always so kind and generous, welcoming me into her home during my UW Madison days whether it was Thanksgiving dinner, or letting me do my laundry at her house.
One of my fondest memories of all the time I spent at the Mittelstadt home, is a late afternoon in the living room, where a few of Mary’s friends were gathered. Mrs. Mittelstadt was at the Steinway, and played Chopin Études Op.10 in its entirety, sans the sheet music. It had always been one of my favorite pieces, and to hear it live was thrilling. We were in awe of Mrs. Mittelstadt’s expression of that piece and I will never forget that day.
I count Mary as one of my closest friends, and I always admired the relationship that Mrs. Mittelstadt and Mary had. I shed a tear for the loss of such an accomplished woman, a phenomenal talent, an amazing mother and a good person.
Denise E. Bové
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Judy
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I always enjoyed talking with Marlys and am grateful for the way she graced my life.
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Barbara Meyer
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I met Marlys in 1993 a few years before I became a member at St Johns. I also have Eau Claire roots so we had that in common. I enjpyed her enthusiastic pieces on the organ. After searching thru the archives was pleased to find many articles written by Marlys in our newsletters. She was a gifted musician. May you rest in peace and know you are missed by many. Barbara Meyer
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Holly Mittelstadt
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Marlys was truly the kindest and most generous woman I have met. I always loved her grace and composure. Many wonderful memories of visits through the years with Miles and his sons over Holidays and Badger football and hockey weekends. I am sure she was welcomed to Heaven with the open arms of Russell, Marc, and Miles. She lived a full and wonderful life
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Mary MIttelstadt
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We have many fond memories of Marlys, our friend and fellow high school band member. During Gloria’s and my high school years a petite, raven-haired beauty graced the flute section of Director Donald I. “Sarge” Boyd’s Eau Claire High School Band. One day the colorful band director asked his dark-haired flutist to perform a difficult passage in front of the band. She responded with a perfect rendition. Not accustomed to giving lavish praise, the passionately picky band director could only murmur, “Fine, Marlys.” After that, Sarge often asked his prize pupil to demonstrate various selections, which invariably concluded with the director’s comment, “Fine, Marlys.” But Sarge’s flute virtuoso had other talents which included intellect and poise, and soon we knew and respected her as Fine Marlys (drop the comma--fine became an adjective), a living symbol of dignity and excellence.
Later, when her husband, Russ, and I made innumerable canoe camping trips, she sewed the cherished cook tent that would sustain us on countess expeditions. Marlys’s music appreciation was wide-ranging. On one wilderness trip while her husband and I savored our meal, the mellifluous tones of a French choir provided background music. Russ had managed to pack-in a present from Marlys, a cassette of voyager songs and a tape player.
And there was so much more: carefree times at the Mittelstadt north-woods cabin, visits at each other’s homes, hearing Marlys perform her organ and piano magic—many decades of meaningful relationships and activities. And thanks, dear Marlys, for including us in the journey.
Dave and Gloria Weiss