Lawrence Joseph Lundy

Lawrence Joseph Lundy

April 03, 1937 - August 24, 2020

Obituary

MADISON - Lawrence Joseph “Larry” Lundy, age 83, died surrounded by love at home on Monday, Aug. 24, 2020. He was born on April 3, 1937, in Indiana. He grew up in Appleton, Wis., the second son of William Leo Lundy and Nell Miller Lundy. His love of music started as a toddler, when his older brother, Bill, introduced him to the late-night radio stations that played jazz and R&B, teaching him to stomp his foot to the beat. When he got older, he became a drummer, playing in the Appleton Drum & Bugle Corps the Americanos, where he made lifelong friends who were dearly important to him after his own father died when he was just 13 years old. He also made lifelong friends at Campion Academy, Marquette University, University of Illinois at Champaign-Urbana, where he earned his architecture degree, and later at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where he completed his masters in Urban and Regional Planning. After college, he moved to London to work as an architect. He fell in love with Europe’s culture - its music, theater, ideas such as health care for all – and again made wonderful friends. Eventually he moved back to Chicago, a city whose architectural beauty inspired him. He worked at Perkins and Will, designing a skyscraper in the loop. Then he moved to Madison, Wis., where he met the love of his life, partially thanks to a newspaper horoscope that said “Get involved in community affairs.” He volunteered to be on the board for the new Near Eastside Community Health Center free clinic. At the first board meeting he was blown away by the young organizer with waist-length hair who introduced herself to the group by saying, “If you want to know anything about me, you should know that I’m a radical feminist.” Larry had recently been reflecting on the ways that gender roles had impacted his own life. Listening to Schubert’s compositions for male chorus, he had been moved by how beautiful they were and at the same time how masculine — two adjectives that society rarely combined. Two weeks after their first date, she moved in, and they have been together for 47 years. Larry worked for Design Coalition, a non-profit community design center that focused on accessibility and environmental impact working on a range of projects including community centers, Eagle School, homes and offices He was always excited to understand clients’ visions which shaped his designs in unique ways. He was also a luthier, making lutes professionally. This synthesized his love of music, Renaissance history, mysticism, and craftsmanship. Before building a lute, he meditated until he heard its sound. At that point, he would begin. He loved art of all forms and the artists who created them. He also loved storytellers and UW basketball, particularly for its collaborative culture. He loved being a dad to his daughter. As soon as Frances arrived on the scene, he became the most enthusiastic dad that ever existed. Larry and Frances shared a special bond, and he inspired her with his pure heart, philosophical nature, and dry sense of humor. When Frances wasn’t allowed to join the Madison Boys Choir, the only major children’s choir in town at the time, Larry and Betty with others formed the Madison Children’s Choir(s). For several years he served as its treasurer, and also as treasurer for the Madison Music Collective. In 2000, he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease, which, thankfully, progressed relatively slowly, but had become more debilitating in the last several years. He died peacefully at home after a brief but sharp decline. He didn’t seem to be in any pain; his body simply slowed to a stop. He leaves behind his wife, Betty Chewning, daughter Frances Chewning; beloved son-in-law, Jeff Maksym; a soon-to-be-born granddaughter; and nephews, Kevin and Terry Lundy and their dear wives, Julie and Tammy. He also leaves the many younger people who became like sons and daughters to him throughout the years, including more recently his caregivers, Evie LaPoint, Alison Downey, Stephanie Ehle, Ivan Hernandez, David Rivera-Beck, and Edwin Hernandez. There will be a celebration of Larry when it is safe for all to gather. Whether in his personal interactions, in the greater world, or in art, Larry was moved by the nobility and generosity that is possible in humanity. “He was a man, take him for all in all: I shall not look upon his like again.” (Hamlet, I, ii) Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care 5203 Monona Drive (608) 221-5420

Events

There are no events for Lawrence yet.
LF
Lynette Fassbender
Other •
Our condolences go out to Betty, Frances and Jeff! Larry was a wonderful, supportive partner to Betty and an incredible father to Frances! We enjoyed all of the years that we spent with the Chewning-Lundy family. Larry was a special friend to us and we hold our memories of him dear! We hope that you are enjoying all the sweets that you can eat in heaven, Larry! Know that you will always be in our thoughts! Love Lynette and Tod
RP
richard petrasso
Other •
Like many others in our large family, I had the good fortune to see and talk with Larry on many different occasions. What a gentle, intelligent, and warm human being. And talented too. We are all the better for having had Larry as part of our lives. Rich
FC
Frances Chewning
Other •
Photos of Larry and his work
NL
Natasha Liu
Other •
Larry was quiet and thoughtful, never sought attention yet let his views be known. He had an eye for spaces/places and detail--light and beauty. His architectural sense informed his appreciation of music in the best of synesthesia and vice versa. His obit spoke about his love of jazz but I remember his appreciation of most forms of music (maybe not Betty's flute playing!!!) including Gregorian chanting. Speaking of music, he supported its appreciation in all sorts of different ways. In my case, he helped my Mom get a discount on our first piano as he was good friends with the Farley's (Farley's house of music). I wanted to share a picture with everyone here of a lute in progress that Larry was making but I can't figure out how to post it here. Since my father left for Taiwan when I was in elementary school, finding out that "my other father" shared a background with my best friend Marty was comforting: they both grew up in Appleton, WI. I remember a moment when learning that we were friends he shared a favorite poem when Frances, Betty, and I were out visiting family friends Marilyn and Joel together out in Boston. I met Larry through my friendship with Frances. At that time, the two most important things in his life were Betty and Frances. I particularly enjoyed reading his obituary because sometimes I forget that he had a life pre-Betty that I don't know much about. Thinking back, I saw his appreciation of all things European in his excitement of hosting international guests. I loved seeing the photos he took of his European tour the last time I was in Madison, Wi. The Chewning/Lundy household always had a cosmopolitan feel and their hospitality was unmatched. I'm guessing that like most marriages there were tensions at times (though I rarely saw them) but I know it was meaningful to Larry that he found a "true" wife in Betty. I wish the topic of death and all things related to family was so easily discussed and planned in my family as I see it was between Larry and Betty. A couple images come strongly to mind when I think of Larry: A silver belt buckle representing the tree of life that he treasured, a photo of Betty that he kept in the car, and a wooden "magic wand" that I came across while playing in the bedroom/attic while playing with Frances (their old home). I will miss him but even more I would have missed not having him in my life. Natasha Liu (Kensington, Ca).
JS
John Steines
Other •
Larry, your gentleness and intellect will always shine. I especially recall the twinkle in your eye and your upturned mouth as a comeback was forming. Much love to Betty and Frances, and all your extended family of relatives and friends. John Steines, Madison, WI.
CB
Calvin Bruce
Other •
Quiet, special guy. My sympathies for your loss.

Share memorial