Carol Lee Bittourna

Carol Lee Bittourna

March 12, 1944 - August 15, 2020

Obituary

In the early evening of Aug. 15, 2020, Carol Lee Bittourna, aka Carollee Dexter, aka Carol Lee Szalony, beloved wife, sister, mother, aunt, grandmother, and great-grandmother passed away at the age of 76 years young. She is survived by her husband, Gordon (Bud) Bittourna Sr.; brothers, George Szalony Jr. and James Szalony. Carol was a mother of six: Maria Dexter, Natalie Frasier, Jerome Dexter Jr., Holly Thomsen, Raymond Dexter and Matthew Dexter. She was a step-mother to Gordon Bittourna Jr. and Gina Meyer. She was a grandmother to eleven: Jessica Justus, Matthew Frasier, Christopher Mizener Jr., Kathleen Monroe, Luke Frasier, Ashley Tellis, Lilly Martinez, Amber Bittourna, Autumn Bittourna, Emma Meyer, and Cooper Meyer. Carol was a great-grandmother to Jayden Anderson, Mackenzie Rivera, AJ Rivera, Isabella Monroe and Leam Monroe. Carol was born as “Daddy’s Little Princess.” She was taught to hold her head high and be proud of her Polish Catholic heritage. Carol grew up with a free-spirited soul in Chicago, IL. She had a love for traveling, playing cards, cars, and gambling. Carol enjoyed crocheting and reading books. She lived her life in multiple volumes like the books she read. In her early adult years as Carollee Dexter she shared her love for adventure in the numerous vacations she took her family on. The road was her oyster where she followed her heart to Memphis or Las Vegas. The Dexter house was known as the neighborhood den where all the strays found a family. All doors were open and Carol was the neighborhood mom. Weekends were filled with barbeques, cards, laughter, and dancing. Carol could always be found celebrating the holidays: from the Birthday New Year’s Day Banquet to the Halloween dress up, to the Christmas spectacular decorations. She gave her children her passion for travelling and celebrating the holidays as well as a love to paint and repaint the house, and the obsession to rearrange furniture. In her later adult years as Carol Bittourna she celebrated life with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren in Broadview, IL. and Belvidere, IL. She enjoyed the open waters on the boat fishing and socializing with neighbors and friends. She continued her traveling adventures to Denver. Carol enjoyed the luxury life as a grandmother and great-grandmother attending all the performances at school functions. She was the leader of all the shenanigans with her grandchildren and carried on the tradition with her great-grandchildren in Beloit, WI. An outdoor service will be held at GUNDERSON EAST FUNERAL AND CREMATION CARE, 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, at 4 p.m. on Thursday, Aug. 20, 2020. Friends and family who wish to view services via LIVE STREAM may visit Carol’s obituary page at www.gundersonfh.com and click on the Watch Webcast Link. An outdoor visitation will be held at the funeral home from 3 p.m. until the time of the service on Thursday. Due to COVID-19 guidelines at this time, social distancing and face masks are required. Carol will continue her adventures with her spirit animal as the wolf. Please share your happy memories, stories, and good-byes. You will be missed. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting cards and donations to be sent to: Holly Thomsen, 119 Valley Drive, Oakwood Hills, IL. 60013. All donations will go toward the expenses of the funeral. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson East Funeral & Cremation Care 5203 Monona Drive (608) 221-5420

Events

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Visitation
Thu Aug 20, 2020 @ 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Madison • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
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Service
Thu Aug 20, 2020 @ 4:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Madison • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
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Holly Thomsen
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Mom was the original Peter Pan. Always full of laughter and trouble. She had a way of getting the kids in trouble just like Grandpa Szalony and Gumpy. She was the leader of "thinking she was funny" with her jokes of her glasses as the wicked witch of the North East South and West. If it wasnt for mom we would never had pets. Your love for dogs came from mom. Any pet we brought home, if mom agreed, which she always did, she convinced dad. All of our friends were always welcome and she had her "adopted children" which were our neighborhood friends that called her mom.
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Jim Szalony
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Growing up in the city of Chicago was an adventure Carol and I would always be getting yelled at for one reason or another, but that was who we were growing up. We didn't get yelled at all of the time we had our good times also. She would help me with my homework after school and at times it would take twice as long to do then it should. You know stopping to get something to drink or cutting each other up, of course we got caught most of the time. But there was one thing that was rock solid between us and that was love and watching out for each other. As we got older, she would bring her boyfriends around (that was a mistake) because I would always manage to be around you know what that meant trouble with a capital T. For some reason her boyfriends would take my side bad for them. There was one Christmas rule it was everyone had to be up to open presents. I woke up before everyone else so I put the 1812 Overture on the record player and set it to the canon part and turned it up. Well needless to say everyone woke up and I got in trouble. The record player was near her bed so she got it the worst. When Carol got married the first time, I would spend the weekends at her house. There was one weekend we stayed up all night painting the kitchen. She would use the ladder and I would stand on the appliances where I could after all I was smaller at one time. When I went into the service and was at boot camp, she never missed a day of writing to me or sending me a goofy card. This helped my mind set as I was not only being trained to protect my country, but I was also being better trained to protect my family. We should be celebrating the fun and joyous times we had with her not the fact that she is no longer with us. Carol will always be with us in our hearts and in our own memories of the time spent with her. Good by sis you will be missed but never forgotten as you will always be in my heart.
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Holly Thomsen
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Natalie did a great job on the collages. Mom would have loved them as much as she loved the mirrors Liege made her. It's really hard looking at pictures; all the good memories we had. I miss you mom.
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Taryn Britton
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A typical polish family Christmas was tables from the kitchen sink to the front room windows at grandma and grandpas. There was always a blessing and wine to cheers after. Well since I am the youngest grandchild of the family I wanted wine too but I wasn't aloud. So Aunt Carol, one time, called me to her and whispered to me to finish the little that was left in the glasses around the table of maybe 15 glasses so I would stop crying. So i did. Needless to say for me it didn't end well. I decided to meet my twin cousins and brother in the hallway of the front door (always our meeting spot before Santa came) and down I went doing "superman" to the front door. It may not have been the right thing to do at the time but it is a story I carry with me always and tell people about often. I laugh about it to this day. My Aunt wanted me to be included and that day I was. As far as I can remember she was always at family events. Now she rests in peace with grandma and grandpa to wait for the rest of us to join the party. She always had life, she always had smiles and laughter, she was always there. This memory we shared long ago will forever be in my heart and I miss you so much. May you rest in peace on angels wings, until we meet again I love you.
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George Szalony
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Carol brought dad to visit us in NC.. While playing cards I asked my Dad why they took a longer route to get to our house. I wish I had a camera handy whenDad saidCarol was napping and he couldn’t read the signs. He had new glasses a week after Carol drove the whole route home. Carol remembered my birthdays and all holidays via phone or text. She and Bud always met us for dinner when we were in the Chicago area. Our conversations might have been short but love flowed openly between us George
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Renee Contreras
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The Contreras Family wants to extend our condolences. We were able to watch Carol’s beautiful service online. We are praying for all of you. Love Carmen, Ducki, and Renee

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