Grant W. Backey

Grant W. Backey

May 02, 1954 - November 19, 2018

Obituary

MADISON- Grant W. Backey, age 64, passed away on Monday, Nov. 19, 2018, after a battle with lung cancer. He was born on May 2, 1954, in Milwaukee. Grant was the adopted son of Orville and Enid (Lutz) Backey. He attended high school in Oregon and was a 1977 graduate of UW Oshkosh, who excelled in sales and marketing. The last 27 years of his career were with Harker Heating and Air Conditioning. When it came to self-awareness, Grant embraced W.C. Field’s position, “I drink therefore I am”. His use of innuendos, some of which could be construed as sexual in nature, made him Tully’s uncensored version of Norm from the hit TV series Cheers. Grant’s journey was our reward because through it all he loved his family, backed his friends, made people laugh, and truly believed life was good. Grant is survived by his wife, Jo; son, Kane; step-daughter, Tammi; brother, Kent; sister, Susan Bast; nieces and nephews; cousins; other relatives; and dear friends. He was preceded in death by his parents; and sister-in-law, Elaine Backey. Friends have always played a very important role in Grant’s life. He wished to acknowledge two buddies dating back to his college days, Dave Rothmann and Ed Rockey. Through the years they participated in escapades that made people shake their heads in disbelief, made others question if they ever happened, and made the three of them choose to “plead the 5th”, more times than not, all of which, though, were in good fun. Grant also wanted to acknowledge his long-time, close friend, Craig Hayes who was a willing accomplice during many of the good times as well and provided a tremendous amount of support when it was needed the most. A special thank you to Carol Luther for her friendship and gracious caregiving. A casual gathering to celebrate Grant’s life will be held at TULLY’S, 6401 Monona Dr., Monona, at a later date to be announced. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson East Funeral and Cremation Care 5203 Monona Drive (608) 221-5420

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Dan Larsen
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Sorry for your loss. I’ve known Grant for over 30 years on a professional basis and it was always fun hanging out with Grant at different sales events. When I would see Grant out and about it would always be a hearty hi Dan what’s going on. My prayers will be going out to the family during this hard time.
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Luke Heiar
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I was fortunate enough to work with Grant for about 11 years at Harker and always appreciated his "Hold nothing back" brand of honesty as well as the hilarious stories he would share from the distant, (and not so distant) past. Sorry to see him go.
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Terry A. Bertch
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Grant...It’s Terry Albert Bertch From UW-Steven Point ...We met at a wing party...! You were sooo kind & funny all the time...!!! Rocky & Dave were your strongest ally’s...The 3 Musketeers ♥️👍🏼♥️ My brother, Jack Albert, had you be in his wedding to Lisa. They were just here for Spring Break...! With 5 kids they have been very busy...God Bless Your Son, Kane...🌷🌷🌷You never gave up on him...!!! He was your mini-Grant!!! R.I. P. Grant...You are home now at Peace🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 terrybertch @outlook.com Email me from Heaven🙏🏼😘
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Terry A. Bertch
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Meeting Grant in College was a growing experience...& I Met your Son, Kane🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼Loved your Mom, Enid, & Dad, Kent, & Susan...What a great family to grow up in♥️ R.I.P. Grant...!
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Joanie, Juan, Kentie, and John
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Love you and miss you.

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