Shirley Helen Smith

Shirley Helen Smith

December 06, 1929 - September 27, 2017

Obituary

Middleton-Shirley H. Smith, age 87, passed away on Wednesday, September 27, 2017, at Agrace HospiceCare. She was born on December 6, 1929, in Kenosha, the daughter of Edward and Mathilda (Dauenhauer) Kleist. She married Gerald “Jerry” Smith on September 6, 1958 at St. James Catholic Church in Kenosha, Wisconsin. Shirley graduated from Mary D. Bradford High School in Kenosha, Wisconsin, and attended El Camino College in Torrance, California, majoring in music education and voice. Music was a large part of Shirley’s life. She was gifted with a beautiful voice from a young age, performing as a soloist at numerous weddings and funerals, and starring in several musicals. Her favorite role was Fiona in Brigadoon. She sang soprano with the Madison Symphony Orchestra Chorus for nine years. Shirley worked in the Waukesha and Middleton-Cross Plains School Districts while her children were in school. As they became older, she transitioned to a career as an administrative assistant. In 1991, she retired as Administrative Assistant to the Director of the UW School of Veterinary Medicine Teaching Hospital. Shirley relished her many volunteer activities. She was a lector and commentator at St. Bernard Parish of Middleton for over 40 years, and a lead volunteer at St. Mary’s Hospital in patient services for 20 years. A person of deep faith, she was an active member of the Madison Catholic Women’s Club and the St. Bernard's Living Rosary.  Shirley is survived by her husband Jerry; two sons, Bryan M. (Ann Ustad) Smith of Middleton, Wisconsin, Owen M. (Anne Collins) Smith of Nacogdoches, Texas; daughter, Amy M. Smith of Lenoir, North Carolina; five grandchildren, Emrys Smith, Emily Kalinowski, Sarah Smith, Eric Smith, and Benjamin Kalinowski; brother, Edward Kleist (Anna Kleist) of San Diego, California; brother-in-law Peter Jespersen of Fallbrook, California; and four great grandchildren, Xavier, Daxter, Liam, and Vivienne. She was preceded in death by her parents, Edward and Mathilda Kleist, and two sisters, Marjorie Kleist and Dolores Jespersen. Shirley loved family get-togethers and was very proud of her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Holding a special place in her heart were the many vacations she took with her family over the years. Those who knew and loved her will also remember her wonderful cooking and baking, and her unfailingly positive outlook on life. Funeral services will be held at ST. BERNARD CATHOLIC CHURCH, 7450 University Ave., Middleton, at 11:00 am on Monday, October 9, 2017, with Father Brian Wilk and Monsignor Douglas Dushack presiding. Burial will be held at Resurrection Cemetery. Visitation will be held at Gunderson West Funeral Home from 4:00 pm until 7:00 pm on Sunday, October 8, 2017, and also at the church from 9:30 am until the time of the service on Monday.  Memorials in Shirley’s name may be made to St. Bernard Parish, P.O. Box 620187, Middleton, WI, 53562-0187 or MOM (Middleton Outreach Ministry), 3502 Parmenter Street, Middleton, WI, 53562. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com.

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Visitation
Sun Oct 8, 2017 @ 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Madison • 5203 Monona Drive, Madison, WI 53716
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Visitation
Mon Oct 9, 2017 @ 9:30 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
St. Bernard Catholic Church (University) • 7450 University Avenue, Middleton, WI null
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Mass of Christian Burial
Mon Oct 9, 2017 @ 11:00 AM CDT
St. Bernard Catholic Church (University) • 7450 University Avenue, Middleton, WI null
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Anita Taylor Doering
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So sorry to hear this news - my thoughts and prayers are with your family - Amy, Jerry and families.
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Maria Nevarez
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Shirley and I did many readings together at St. Bernard Parish in Middleton. I always loved her dedication and her expression of love when she did her readings. I will miss her smile and hugs. She was always warm and welcoming. My deepest sympathies to the family, Jerry and family and friends. XO Rest in Peace dear. May the Lord Bless You, and Keep You; The Lord make his face shine on you, and be gracious to you; The Lord Lift up his countenance on you, and give you peace. Amen
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Diane Evans
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So glad we had a chance to spend time with Shirley and Gerry a few years ago out in Culpeper, VA. Both of them retained their joy and humor and vibrant love of life. It was so wonderful that they both had time together with Bob and Vi--and that John and I lucked out and got to see them too! Deepest sympathies to the entire family. Our thoughts are with you all.
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Mark Svede
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I'm sure I can speak for my parents Pat and George Svede, as well as my brother Greg and sister Michelle, in expressing our sadness at the news of Shirley's death. Hers was a glorious, vibrant life that we Svedes first had the pleasure knowing when our two families were just getting underway, back in the mid-1960s on Greenmeadow Drive in Waukesha. Years, careers, and generations later, the two sets of parents have remained in touch, and now we send our love to Jerry, Bryan, Owen, Amy and all of their family.
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Hugh & Olivia Cantrell
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We had the distinct privilege of living next door to Jerry and Shirley in Sun City, Arizona for about 15 years. They were always such a joy to be around. Jerry with his sense of humor and Shirley with her eternal big smile and engaging laugh. We had so much fun with them on our trips to Laughlin. We even installed a gate (named the 'Shirley Gate') so Shirley could easily come into our yard to pick grapefruit. Wonderful memories that will never fade. Condolences to everyone in the family who are dealing with her passing. Look forward to seeing her again in heaven.
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Pearl Quast
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Shirley was always there with Jerry for the WREA northwest branch of educators in Arizona! Her smile of welcome at every meeting was a joy and Jerry, we offer you and family in Madison our deepest sympathy in the loss of your dear wife! Kindest regards, Pearl Kolb Quast, Sun City West, Arizona

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