Julie Metcalfe

Julie was my best friend in 7th and 8th grade at black earth elementary. I lost touch with her when she moved to Madison after 8th grade. You have my deepest sympathy. My Brother Jeff passed away on Nov. 14 due to depression. I hope people will recognize what a awful illness this is. Susan Sweeney Sawle.

Julie and I reconnected at our class reunions and I remember her laugh. In fact I hear it now. At our 30th reunion she again was laughing and also sharing about her struggles and overcoming them. She knew I was safe because I too have struggled with depression, anxiety and substance use disorder. I have dedicated my life to helping families who struggle with these illnesses. What I want to say in her honor is that it's OUR responsibility to eradicate the stigma around the illness, so that others may overcome and ask for help. Rest in paradise, Julie. I will miss you at the next reunion but you can bet that we will all share a story and we will smile and laugh in your memory as you wouldn't have it any other way.

I knew Julie through my sister Donna Eaton and the the work they did providing food for the Grace Homeless Shelter. She was always a joy to talk to and yes her smile did light the room. Blessings to all of Julie's family at this sad, sad time.

May Peace Attend Thee.

I will forever miss her beautiful smile, laugh, and huge heart. She was so observant and sharp. She was one of my friends who I knew would always listen when I talked. She had the most charming personality. She loved her daughters so much as she would glow when talking about them. Only a severe illness could take her from them. Prayers and love to her family. xoxo