Beth A. Gentilli

Beth A. Gentilli

September 04, 1960 - October 08, 2015

Obituary

Gentilli, Beth A. MADISON-Beth A. Gentilli, age 55, of Madison, passed away at home surrounded by her family, on Thursday, Oct. 8, 2015, after a four year battle with colorectal cancer. She was born on Sept. 4, 1960, in Madison, the daughter of Ethel Darlene Fosdal and Julian Ardell Erickson. She grew up on West Lawn Ave. on the west side of Madison. She attended Madison West High School and graduated in 1978. In 1983, she earned her Bachelor of Science degree in Education at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Beth started her career in Special Education at Middleton High School. She began working at East High School/Higher Ground in 1987. Beth earned her Master of Science in Education at the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater and graduated in 1989. She left East High School/Higher Ground in 2001 to teach for a specialized program called, REPLAY through the Madison Metropolitan School District. Beth mentored middle school aged boys and worked until she was forced to retire because of her illness. Throughout her career, she received the Competency Builder Award in March, 2008, and the Outstanding Service Award from the Dane County Juvenile Court in April, 2015. She worked with many great people who became her lifelong friends. The kids she taught loved when she would take them on field trips, camping, Brewer games and museums. The toughest kid was never tough enough; she always had genuine love for each of them. Beth also taught many children in summer school through MMSD. She worked her way through college by ski patrolling, at The Goal Post and at The Laurel Tavern where she met her husband, Chris. Beth spent a few months in 1983 traveling Europe with her best friend, Karen Zinkgraf. On Dec. 21, 1985, Beth and Chris got married at Bethel Lutheran Church where Beth was a life-long member. This December would have been their 30th wedding anniversary. She loved any kind of travel, especially to Clearwater Beach with her family where she spent nearly every Spring Break; as well as, visiting her sister and niece in Virginia Beach. Beth enjoyed puzzles, DIY projects and attending her kids' and husband's sporting events. She loved being outdoors, riding her bike, gardening, going to movies and skiing. Beth was an incredible cook, everyone in the family looked forward to her cooking on holidays. Each family member had a favorite dish that she would prepare for them every year on Thanksgiving. She enjoyed competing in mini-triathlons in the area. Beth loved being with her family and she always put others before herself. She was a workaholic and an energizer bunny, she worked many hours at her family's Milios Sandwiches and made sure it was sparkling clean. Beth loved ending her night snuggling with her cat, Boo. She had an infectious smile and a contagious laugh. Beth loved everyone and everyone loved her. Her positivity infected everyone around her. Beth's courage and strength through her illness will forever be admired. She is survived by her husband, Chris; her three daughters, Kara, Lindsay and Jaimie; her sister, Tami (Phil) Conaty; her father and mother in-law, Jack and Helen Gentilli; sister in-law Barb (Bill Kokott) Gentilli; brother in-law, Tom Gentilli; nephew, Rob Vohs; niece, Heather (Mike) Robinson and their two children, Logan and Hadley. She was preceded in death by her mother and father, Julian and Ethel Erickson; and many aunts and uncles from the Madison and Stoughton area. A memorial service will be held at BETHEL LUTHERAN CHURCH, 312 Wisconsin Ave., Madison, at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Oct. 24, 2015. Visitation will be held at GUNDERSON FITCHBURG FUNERAL HOME, 2950 Chapel Valley Rd., Fitchburg, from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Friday, Oct. 23, 2015. Those wishing to make a memorial contribution in her name are encouraged to do so to the family, who will be creating a scholarship in her name at a later time. Online condolences may be made at www.gundersonfh.com. Gunderson Fitchburg Funeral & Cremation Care 2950 Chapel Valley Road (608)442-5002

Events

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Visitation
Fri Oct 23, 2015 @ 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM CDT
Gunderson Funeral and Cremation Care - Fitchburg • 2950 Chapel Valley Road, Fitchburg, WI 53711
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Service
Sat Oct 24, 2015 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
Bethel Lutheran Church (Madison) • 312 Wisconsin Ave, Madison, WI null
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Mary Annen
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Gentilli Family, "Silence is filled with the echoes of life, be comforted by your memories." The world has lost a wonderful mother and friend. You're all in our thoughts and prayers. Mary & Jeff Annen
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Tami Conaty
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My dear little sister Beth I am heartbroken and cannot find the words to tell you how I feel....It is all so unfair that God took you so early. I will always wonder why? Heaven has definitely gained the most shining beautiful angel ever! I miss you so much already and cannot envision life without you. My grief for you will be never ending...and the LOVE that I carry for you in my heart and memories will live on forever through all of those who loved you so...your amazing daughters,husband, and all of the rest of your family and friends! We all love and miss you so with every breath we take! I know you are at peace now with our parents, aunts, uncles,grandparents and also baby Dylan! Till we meet again...like we talked about you are here with me every sunrise, sunset, the wind or sun on my face and every walk on the beach! I lLove you always and forever....your sister Tami
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dneece Hettrick
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I read somewhere that "while there is sadness in everyone's life...it doesn't mean we need to live our lives sadly". When I think of Beth...that quote comes to mind. Beth had her share of sadness no doubt, but in all the years I knew her, I cannot remember one time that she was not smiling....not one time! This is the legacy she has left...take life as it comes, but in every circumstance...remain positive. In the end, when Beth knew that her time on earth was coming to an end, she set it up so that she could go on her own terms...on a beautiful Fall day, surrounded by the great loves of her life and no doubt with a smile on her face. Praise be to God for the life of Beth Gentilli. -neecey
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DJ
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I was a student of Mrs. Gentilli and sad of her passing. I've been meaning to look her up but haven't been back to Madison in quite some time. My condolences to her family and just know she touched many lives. I still have the travel bag that she got me and it's been around the world. It was a pleasure to have known you.
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Charlie and Sue Crone
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Sue and I were so sad to hear from my brother, Jim, the news of Beth's recent departure from this experience on earth to her new role as your ever present Guardian Angel looking over your girls and You Chris, especially now-but more importantly from this point on... We send our warm wishes and heart felt prayers to you Chris and your girls, Beth's Family, All of Your Friends and Your Mom and Dad Helen and Jack, your older brother Tom and your little sis and my old pal Barb in these challenging and sudden turn of life's plan. If there is anything we can do for you Chris et al we would be delighted to assist in anyway- even from out here on the right coast of Maryland-other than the constant positive thoughts & prayers mentioned above! Heal and celebrate now as we all know Beth would want and will now continue to do on another level with you All on a daily routine! All the Best...Charlie and Sue Crone, Gaithersburg, MD email:cwerone7@gmail.com
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Kim Jensen
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Beth and I were childhood friends. Though she was one grade behind me at Dudgeon Elementary, our sisters Pam and Tami were friends and our parents were friendly so we spent some time together in grade school, primarily hanging out in the neighbourhood and playing backyard games. Our friendship reached its pinnacle in middle school when we were campers together at Bethel Horizons for two concurrent summers. Again, because of Tami and Pam's friendship it was assumed all four of us would go to camp together. Our sisters were placed in one group and Beth and I in another. Anyone who has a camp friend will understand how quickly the two of us bonded and how close we became. We canoed, hiked, sang and talked 24/7 for those two weeks those two summers. Our bond was cemented for a lifetime. If my recollection was correct, Mrs Ericson was often the one carting us to and from Dodgeville listening to our silly, giddy preteen chatter on the way there and our tears on the way home as we never wanted our time at camp to end. Beth and I stayed friends through high school. I remember her love of skiing and her attempts to get a bunch of us from the church youth group certified as Junior Ski Patrols. We lost contact as those friendships are oft to do as I moved far away and was not back to Wisconsin often. I was so full of sympathy for her when she lost her amazing mother and then her father. The last time we saw each other was at The Laurel and she had just graduated from college and was excited about becoming an educator. I have thought about Beth often, especially in the summer when it is camp season. Despite there being decades passed since we could be considered active friends I always recalled her warm spirit, her beautiful smile, her positive attitude, her openness to new adventures and her capacity for empathy, giving and caring. My deep condolences to Beth's family and friends, especially Tami. I hope you can take solace knowing so many people loved Beth throughout her whole life. If there is anything I can do please let me know. In deep sympathy, Kim Jensen

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