James Edward Esselman,

The passing of Jim came as a complete shock to me. I began my WIAA football career several years ago in Waunakee officiating youth football. Jim refereed these games at the time and we got to know one another. Jim was patient and always was willing to help me out and answer as many questions I may have for him. I then joined the SWOA and learned Jim was a member as well. We talked a lot and the last time we spoke was at the 2013 SWOA clinic at Edgewood High school. Jim had a master officiating license and I knew any question I asked him I would receive the correct answer. His kind and gentle approach to new officials left a huge impression on me which continues today. The SWOA clinic will not be the same this year without Jim but I'm sure we will all speak about him and the lovely times we shared together. Thanks Jim for helping me out and I will never forget you. To Jim's family I wish to say that he will be with me this fall when I take to the football field and like always will remember what he taught me. Rest in peace my friend!! Jack Jasensky McFarland, Wi.

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jim's passing. It had been my pleasure to see Jim professionally for years, and I grew to think of him as more than a patient, but as a friend I could chat with at the hardware store, of get some advice or treatment on getting rid of that aching back from working on that great smile of his! I have the pleasure of knowing some of his family, and have watched them grow over the years, and I can see those smiling eyes in his kids and grand-kids. My condolences to your family in this dark time, but take solace in the fact that he changed many lives with his gifts. Bob Limke, Sun Prairie, WI

My memories of Jim go WAY back as I have known Sandy since grade school days in Oshkosh, WI. I cannot believe that they were married for 42 years! I always enjoyed the updated photos as Christmas, Sandy, of your family. This journey we are on...called life...has many ups and down and I pray the memories of the good days will keep you and your family going in the months and years to come. Sending my love and prayers. Jan (March) Lumsden

I am very saddened to hear of Jim's passing to the other side. His gentle compassionate spirit defined his character and his gift to those who knew him. I will miss his healing massages, as they were the best I've ever experienced because he brought such great integrity to his profession. I send loving condolences to Sandy and Jim's family and would like them to know that he will always be remembered for his goodness. In love & light, Virginia Rose

So very sorry to hear this! My thoughts and love to the Esselman Family! Lindsey Dahm