Ben Scalissi

Best to you, Ben Scalissi. God speed. You've left a beautiful legacy behind you, including our wonderful neighbors, Joe and Deb and the kids. Frank & Abbie

I was saddened to hear of Ben’s passing in the newspaper. Although I didn’t know him extremely well, I have celebrated with him and his family at various Italian Workmen’s Club activities – The Corn Party, Festa Italia, Columbus Day Dinner, etc. His family was his pride and joy, especially his beautiful grandchildren. I must say that this past summer when my husband and I were volunteering at McKee Park for Festa, we were able to catch him sing. The band that was playing in the beer tent invited musicians from the audience to come on stage and sing and he was one of the spectators to volunteer. Let me tell you, he had the whole beer tent and parks ground rocking!! I think every member of the band was astonished to watch the talent that this older man could come up, grab the Mike, and sing. He had everyone eating out of his hand. I knew his son was a singer/performer, but had never actually heard Ben sing. This is how I shall remember him. It was his day – he was awesome! Simply the best. Sue Aiello (Johnny Joe’s wife)

Ben's son Joe has been my close friend since we were teenagers. We trained together for amateur boxing under the tutledge of Jose Murray, our esteemd coach, mentor and friend. Ben was always involved in Joe's training and fight preperation. As I told Joe the other day, his dad has always been in his corner - both in and outside the ring, in the game of boxing and in the game of life. I am sure that Ben is still in Joe's corner, even now, but with a higher vantage point. Joe, Donna, Ben Jr., my condolences to all of you and all your family in this time of sadness. Arrivederci*, Ben. You will be missed. - Scott Caywood PS * Italian, not for "goodbye" but "until we see each other again"

Joe - your father was a good man Mrs. Scalissi - my condolences on the death of your husband Craig Caywood

Donna - My dad, Curt Larson is an old friend of yours from the Lake George days. We have so many good memories of you & Ben from back then. We send you & your family our very heartfelt sympathy. Kris & Mike Huston